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I was dating a guy happily with no magic but his ex keeps using Santisma Muerte on him to bring him back to her, very successfully. I began using spells as well to bring him back to me, never Santisima, but several come to me, return a lover, and attraction spells. I now realize that even though they were done with good intentions out of love, I was still controlling and manipulating him and now I have to worry about karma coming back to bite me. What can I expect (examples) and is there anything I can do to lessen the blow other than just tough it out? We had a great relationship and I now understand that I was hurting more than helping and just hope I haven't ruined it for good.