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It seems as if whatever I believe wholeheartedly will happen in my life, the complete opposite occurs, particularily with relationships. Often times when I think "Oh yeah, they'll last for a while." they end up having problems in about two days. In fact, just last night, I was giving my friend a ride home from work. We work together and we talked about the friend he lives with, who is also my friend. We said the house is so depressing because there is nothing to do there and the people there don't do anything either. The friend my co-worker lives with, from what I was told, doesn't leave the house, stays up all night, does nothing but watch T.V and barely talks to his girlfriend anymore. I started believing this and making the judgement that he will end up a loser like his uncle, and on the night I gave my friend a ride back to the house, I see the lazy friend walking towards the house, with his girlfriend. There's me thinking he'll be okay, but it was the complete opposite of my expectation.

Diagnosis, suggestions or anything?

All help would be appreciated.