Again, I must re-iterate a point I made earlier, as we have many join our on-line community daily. The subject is: Love spells. I have been noticing many desperate pleas from Desperate, heart-broken individuals. My sympathies are genuinely with you, as we all have had to endure the pain and grief over losing significant others, myself no exception. Please understand the nature behind the spells you beg us to perform to miraculously bring back your jilted lovers magickally in to your arms. What you ask is noble in theory, seeing how the greatest force in the Universe is indeed love. We are all born with an inherent desire to be loved and valued. It is part of the experience of being human. It gives us the feeling that we need not face this cold world alone, that we have someone to lean on in both good times and bad; Someone to share our joys, triumphs, and yes, our sorrows. We crave to be loved; we need it to grow and thrive.
But on the flip side of the same coin, we have a tendency to cling to people after they exit our lives. This is normal behaviour. We fritter the days away hoping they will regain their senses and run back to us as if nothing happened. This too is normal. However, we also have the tendency to sink into desperation, where our faculties of reason become overpowered by said heart-break, and we lose touch with reality. This is where I inject my original point (and a quote). "Tis better to have loved and lost, than never loved at all". Paraphrase, actually of a beautiful quote by Alfred Lord Tennyson. The point is this: To cast a love spell and force a person return to you if that is not their will or desire has ramifications. We are creatures of free will and therefore determine our own course of action and destination in life. When something has reached it's natural conclusion, or outlived it's utility, it always happens for some reason or other. When you opt to forcefully bind another against their free will, you are in effect tampering with Forces beyond comprehension, the Universal forces. Some may have no issue in accepting the consequences, but many do, and are very conscious of them. I speak from very personal experience and from the heart. I look back in retrospect and have the hindsight I did not possess then, and hope you all do not have to suffer the humiliations, contemptuous rejections and hostilities and other bad things that dumped on me due to my lack of wisdom and life experience at the time. Tampering with free will is a line I shan't cross again, not out of fear pre se, but rather out of respect and reverence for the Universe, and of free will. If it wasn't meant to be, quite simply and plainly, it shall not be. Everybody hurts- that too is a facet of being human. Hang in there, and look for the positive things in life; there are many we just cannot see temporarily. A cat always lands on it's feet, and so can we :)
So be careful what you wish for~ it might not just whirl back to you, it might slam you into the ground with hurricane-like fury.
Blessed Be, and may you heal and grow.