Long time ago, I casted an obsession spell on a guy who had been dangling me in the middle, nor confessing about his feelings for me and neither wanting me to move on. I was irritated, frustrated and emotionally unstable. I shouldn't have used magick with such a state of mind but I couldn't think properly so I just looked up a spell to get revenge on him and found some obsession spells,I took some pointers from them and created my own spell. I cast it and waited..after some time, I could see it working, that guy was obsessed with me. I decided that it was not fair with him, so I tried to break the spell but I don't know if I broke it coz he loves me and I love him. We're already in a successful relationship and our one year anniversary is on Christmas. I did tell him that I had cast a spell but he said these feelings that he has for me are very real. I hope they are because mine are definitely real. But now I'm afraid what if I couldn't break the spell and he's just obsessed with me because of my foolishness. Somebody please help!
Personally, I find that the effects of such a spell, unless constantly kept up with by continuously performing, will begin to wear down over time, shattering the illusions.
I know this is an old post, but I believe that some pieces of obsession spells remain in the target long after the spell runs its course. It alters something in their conscious. Unless you do some magical cleanup work, the spell will continue to linger. It doesn't take much to reawaken the obsession.
This is an interesting case. It seems like you've experienced both the power of magick and the power of human connection. It is possible that your spell unintentionally led to genuine feelings of love and affection between you two. However, it is also possible that the spell still holds some influence over him.
One way to know for sure is to continue to observe your relationship and communicate openly with your partner about your concerns. If you feel that the relationship is healthy, respectful, and built on mutual love and trust, then the power of your initial spell may have faded, and you two have built something genuine.
It's important to note that while magick can influence circumstances and emotions, it cannot force someone to truly love or commit to you if they are not willing to do so. Real love and relationship are built on mutual willingness, trust, and respect.
If your partner has expressed their love and affection for you, it's possible that your spell unintentionally helped to manifest real feelings, rather than causing them to be obsessed with you.
However, if there are signs of unhealthy dynamics, such as manipulation, possessiveness, or obsessive behaviour, it may be worth considering seeking professional assistance or trying to break the spell again. Remember that magick is a powerful tool and should be used carefully and responsibly, especially when dealing with emotional matters.
In the end, open communication, self-reflection, and genuine care for each other are the keys to a healthy and happy relationship. Trust your instincts and continue to build a relationship based on mutual respect and understanding.