DESPERATE.

http://www.spellsofmagic.com/spells/love_spells/attraction_spells/12069/page.html

you asked me, i told you to look at the spells in my history. heed the warning of others though, love magic is hard and walks a fine line, you are tempting fate, and toying with others for your own desire. you need to overpower the persons free will and make them do what you want. sometimes the person does like you and the spell just gives them a nudge, but more often than not, the caster is forcing someones hand. one day, the person will break the spell, realize they don't care for you, and break up with you. the only way to prevent this is to keep casting on them. this will take a lot of energy on your part, and wind up being a huge hassle you don't want in the long run.

if you feel this person cast a spell over you, might i suggest a reversal spell, to send it back at the caster, then have a quick sea salt bath, and cast a protection spell on yourself. it comes with a lower chance of backfiring, and you don't have to constantly recast. [of course, you should get into a habit of daily shielding to keep minor hexes and negative energy at bay]

whatever you choose to do, meditate first and decide what's right, and as always, be careful what you wish for.

Exactly... I would like to add that you are going to do more harm to them than good. They will break through the magic every once in a while, where they will find a hole in themselves that hasn't been filled. They will do things to fill that hole that they will regret for the rest of their lives. It will change them for the worse. They will start thinking they are who their actions are when they break free, feel they are a worse person than who they are and start being that worse person. If you truly love them, you have to let them go romantically and try to fight for a friendship, not using magic. A friendship is much more important; it's needed for a romance to work.

Also, if you're using magic to control them, they probably know you capable of magic and will do what they can to break it so it's going to be a real mess...