i think it is time...

speaking your own mind gets people into trouble now days... but for what reason nobody knows... it is sad to see that everyone has changed... most are worse and the others gone better... i can also see that the mods still think they know more about pet then anyone else... please don't look at this as an attack, i am only speaking on what i see.

I understand your intentions perfectly, but try to look at it from more than one POV. And it isn't speaking ones mind that brings about trouble, it's the way it's voiced and how people fail to actually say something in a way that gets something done.

if you asked something nicely no one well hear, if you ask something rude everyone well hear...

that is why on the news now days you only hear the bad stuff and rarely hear the good news. they know people like to only hear the bad.

we understand chaos but telling pet what to do wont make him do it if he dosent want to do it people cant chnage his mind

I won't disagree. Some people do need to be treated like crap. But I will say that they aren't the people you want to hear you. And in what conformist way did it start being okay to act any way because it's what others need? (Of course some will argue we conform in censoring what we say. It's good for you because I know you can think of a better way to say it. We do have a younger audience as well.)

"I like how a couple of days after your return, you come and say what the siteowner NEEDS to do. If you feel that way then you can turn right back around and go. We dont have time for your attitude. You have like 3 or 4 accounts so why dont use those to message people too. Sorry if it came off as a little rude but, we have restictions for a reason and they will not be let up just for ONE person." - Trav
Chaos has been here before as well, I have a similar suggestion to the mail problem...
From the Ignore list, I reckon there should be a "Arrange mail by user" function.

I happen to agree.

when i was a mod, and i give out that idea... i said that this is a good idea. i never really said pet do this and that. i did had some very good ideas, but pet never said "yeah that could work" or "sure." he never said anything back or done it... this was 4 or so months ago... i am only trying to help and if you still think that i am doing the wrong thing, then that is what you think.

"Some people do need to be treated like crap."

I try to live by that idea daily in my posts :P

I am a very slow typer at times, so I usually do not use the chat features. What ever pet and the Mods decide is fine with me. With or without training wheels.