Finding and connecting with your element is not an easy task. Of course you can look up your astrological sign and correspond the matching element that way, but that doesn't make that element any more specifically unique to you than it does with the millions of other people with the same astrological sign and element. 
You have to understand that when working with the elements, you don't just have one or two, but rather you have all them as you are connected to them all; Air, Water, Earth, Fire, and Spirit (Note that astrological signs don't correspond with Spirit.) Most well experienced and well round practitioners and element workers will tell you that it is a life long journey working with the elements. As such one should work with and practice with each of the elements until it practically becomes second nature and seems effortless. 
However along this journey you might find that over time while working with the elements, you may form a personal bond and connection with or or two elements specifically more so than the rest; which is completely natural and fine. The elements your form a closer bond with play to your natural instincts, energy, desires, emotions, personality, and so on. With your bonded element/s you may find it much easier to work with sometimes to the point that it is completely fluid and unison like; not that you should not strive to achieve the same affect with all the elements. 
Personally speaking my two bonded elements are Air first, and Water second. But this is how I like to envision myself when working with the elements: Before me lies the Element Air, the element of Knowledge, Wisdom, Inspiration, and Freedom which is ruled by the direction East. To my right lies the element Fire, the element of Passion, Strength, Transformation, and Will which is ruled by the direction South. Behind me falls the element Water, the elements of Change, Emotion, Courage, and Reflection which is ruled by the direction West. To my left the element Earth stands, the element of Balance, Nature, Endurance, and Wealth which is ruled by the direction North. And within me lives the element and body of Spirit, the element of Love, Desire, Compassion, and Eternity. 
To work with the elements in a general sense I would suggest giving your hand at working with them and meditating with them in a myriad of different ways. For example I will list several possibilities for each element: 
For Air- 
Experiment with deep breath meditations 
Go outside and find your favorite breezy spot and absorb the magic of wind 
Fly a kite 
Experiment with flying in the astral plane 
Scry using smoke, and watch the wind blow the smoke in swirls and patterns 
For Fire- 
Sit outside next to a campfire or bonfire and meditate 
Scry with fire by gazing into the flames 
Try your hand by manipulating the flame of a candle 
Spend extra time outside and enjoy the glorious sunshine 
perform workings using candle and fire magics 
For Water- 
Go swimming 
Sit by a lake, river, stream, pond or any body of water and meditate 
Drink more water than you usually drink and see how it affects you and how you react 
Go on a boat/kayak, or canoe ride 
Go fishing 
Shine your pretty voice and take a bath or shower, and sing to your hearts desire 
Try using a bowl or some watered surface, and try scrying that way 
For Earth- 
Go for a walk outdoors or hike 
Play in the dirt, sand, or mud 
If you have a garden or like gardening go out and do some work with your green thumbs, if you've never tried now's a good time to start 
Go on a stone hunt or explore different stones you see while walking or hiking 
Have a stone or crystal day, spend your time with your stones and gems 
There are many more ways you can go about working and exploring the elements. With creativity and imagination there are some pretty amazing things one can do while working with the natural elements. The elements have their correspondences and associations just like many things with the craft and magic so for an example I will share with you my associations and correspondences that I have formed with the elements. But keep in mind that correspondences between different people, different paths, different traditions will not always be the same, sometimes similar sometimes complete different from one another. That's because the elements like many things are unique to each individual as you each form a relationship with each element, and over time you will come to bond and connect with them, following of which you will gradually learn about them as they learn about you. 
The Elements-Correspondences 
Element-Air 
Elemental-Sylphs 
Direction-East 
Rulership-The Mind, Mental Work, Intuition, Knowledge, Wisdom, Wind, Clouds, Inspiration, Hearing, Plant Growth, Purification, Freedom, Revealing truth, Finding Things, Instruction, Telepathy, Memory, Secrets of the Dead, Zen, Meditation, Will, Protection, Loyalty, Vision, Transformation, Dreams, Reflection, Empathy, Mystery, New Beginnings, Illusions, Healing, Revealing Secrets, Light. 
Color-White, light blue, Lavender, Yellow 
Types of Magic- Wind, Divination, Prophecy, Karma, Time, Storm, Weather, Mirror, Purification, Binding, Healing, Knowledge and Wisdom. 
Energy-Projective 
Mundane Animal Totem-The Hawk, The Eagle, The Owl, The Praying Mantis, The Tiger 
Mythical Animal Totem-The Dragons, The Phoenix, The Griffin 
Archangel-Michael 
Altar Tools-Wand and Athamae 
Tarot Suits-Wands (Rods) 
Court Cards-Knights 
Playing Cards-Hearts 
Celtic Treasure-Spear of Destiny 
Sabbat-Ostara 
Solar Midpoint-Spring Equinox 
Zodical point-0 Degrees Aries 
Season-Spring 
Time of Day-Dawn 
Weather-Windy, Stormy 
Stage of Life-Birth 
Human Age-Infancy 
Body Analog-Breathe 
Attribute-Intellectual, Joyful 
Function-Thinking 
Sense-Sight 
Cardinal Sign-Libra 
Mutable Sign-Gemini 
Fixed Sign-Aquarius 
Alchemy Process-Evaporation 
Metals-Silver 
Gemstones-Emeralds, Topaz, Tiger's Eye, Amethyst, Diamonds, Mystical Opal 
Incense-Jasmine, Rose, Frankincense 
Plants-Acacia, Lavender, Rose, Jasmine, Myrrh, St. Johns Wort, Dragons blood, Yarrow, Hibiscus, Lemongrass, Torah, Silver leaf, Heliotrope, Hyacinth. 
Trees-Elder and Oak 
Right-To Know 
Element-Fire 
Elemental-Salamanders 
Direction-South 
Rulership-Energy, Sexuality, Passion, Love, Authority, Transformation, Purification, Sun, Blood, Healing, Destruction, Will, Creativity, Heat, Hearth Fires, Protection, Courage, Strength, Exercise, Self Awareness, Loyalty, Vision, Power, Domination, Deflection, Avoidance, Hesitation. 
Color-Red, Orange, Gold. 
Types of Magic- Candle, Fire, Love, Lust, Passion, Strength, Vitality, Empowerment, Domination. 
Energy-Projective 
Mundane Animal Totem-Lions, Lizards, Snakes, Scorpions, bees, Coyotes, Sharks, and Foxes. 
Mythical Animal Totem-The Thunderbird, The Sun Dragons, The chimera 
Archangel-Raphael 
Altar Tools-Incense and Candle 
Tarot Suits-Swords 
Court Cards-Kings 
Playing Cards-Spades 
Celtic Treasure-Sword of Nuadha 
Sabbat-Litha 
Solar Midpoint-Summer Solstice 
Zodical point-0 Degrees Cancer 
Season-Summer 
Time of Day-Noon 
Weather-Hot, Dry 
Stage of Life-Growth 
Human Age-Youth 
Body Analog-Bones 
Attribute-Passionate, Potent 
Function-Feeling 
Sense-Taste 
Cardinal Sign-Aries 
Mutable Sign-Sagittarius 
Fixed Sign-Leo 
Alchemy Process-Combustion 
Metals-Gold and Iron 
Gemstones-Fire Opal, Bloodstone, Carnelian, Red Jasper, Lava Pumice, Garnet, Agates, Ruby 
Incense-Juniper, Olibanum 
Plants-Garlic, Hibiscus, Onion, Mustard, Pepper, Nettle, Cinnamon, Chile Peppers, Cayenne, Almonds 
Trees-Blooming Almond 
Right-To Will 
Element-Water 
Elemental-Undines 
Direction-West 
Rulership-Oceans, Tides, lakes, Springs, Love, Healing, Emotions, Change, Fluidity, Courage, The Unconscious, Fertility, Cleansing, Purification, Reflection, Sorrow, Flexibility, Vulnerability, Caution, Mysteries, The Abyss, Intelligence, Resilience, Compassion. 
Color-Blue, Sea Green, Aquamarine, Green, Grey, Indigo, 
Types of Magic-Ocean, Sea, Rain, Snow, Healing, Cleansing, Purification, Change 
Energy-Receptive 
Mundane Animal Totem-Dolphin, Sea Turtle, Whale, Serpent 
Mythical Animal Totem-Siren, Hydra, Hippocampus 
Archangel-Gabriel 
Altar Tools-Chalice & Water, Cauldron & Salt 
Tarot Suits-Cups 
Court Cards-Queens 
Playing Cards-Diamonds 
Celtic Treasure-Cauldron of Daghda 
Sabbat-Mabon 
Solar Midpoint-Autumn Equinox 
Zodical point-0 Degrees Libra 
Season-Autumn 
Time of Day-Sunset/Dusk/Twilight 
Weather-Rainy, Mist, Fog, Cloudy, Stormy 
Stage of Life-Death 
Human Age-Maturity 
Body Analog-Blood 
Attribute-Emotional, Fertile 
Function-Intuition 
Sense-Smell 
Cardinal Sign-Cancer 
Mutable Sign-Pisces 
Fixed Sign-Scorpio 
Alchemy Process-Solution 
Metals-Silver, Carbonized Iron, Mercury 
Gemstones-Aquamarine, Blue Tourmaline, Pearl, Coral, Blue Florite, Sodalite, Blue Topaz 
Incense-Rose, Myrrh, Onycha 
Plants-Aloe, Apple, Chamomile, Ferns, Gardenias, Lemon, Lilac, Lilly of the Valley, Lotus, Passionflower, Seaweed, Thyme, Valerian, Water Lilies 
Trees- Willow 
Right-To Dare 
Element-Earth 
Elemental-Gnomes/Elves 
Direction-North 
Rulership-Mountains, caverns, Stones, Vegetation, Wealth, Creativity, Nature, The Body, Birth, Death, Materialization, Material gain, Fertility, Healing, Trees, Gems, Animals, Manifestation, Silence, Metal, Grounding, Balance, Employment, Stability, Success, Strength, Endurance, Practicality 
Color-Brown, Green, Yellow-Orange, Scarlet, Purple, Canary. 
Types of Magic-Plant and Animal, Grounding, Magnet, Attraction, Binding etc. 
Energy- Receptive 
Mundane Animal Totem- Bull, Eagle, Ram, Wolf, and the Bear 
Mythical Animal Totem-Unicorns, Satyrs, The Fae 
Archangel-Uriel 
Altar Tools-Cords, Mortar & Pestle, Pentacles 
Tarot Suits-Pentacles (Discs) 
Court Cards-Pages 
Playing Cards-Clubs 
Celtic Treasure-Stone of Strength 
Sabbat- Yule 
Solar Midpoint-Winter Solstice 
Zodical point-0 Degrees Capricorn 
Season-Winter 
Time of Day- Midnight 
Weather- Cold 
Stage of Life-Decay 
Human Age-Old Age/Seniority 
Body Analog-Flesh 
Attribute-Physical, Safe 
Function-Sensation 
Sense-Touch/Feel 
Cardinal Sign-Capricorn 
Mutable Sign-Virgo 
Fixed Sign-Taurus 
Alchemy Process-Precipitation 
Metals-Lead, Iron, Copper 
Gemstones-Onyx, Obsidian, Jasper, Emerald, Azurite, Black Tourmaline, Jet, Agate, Peridot 
Incense-Patchouli, Magnolia 
Plants-Sage, Honeysuckle, Primrose, Magnolia, Wheat, Comfrey, Sage, Vertivert 
Trees-Cedar, Cypress, Elder, Oak, Birch 
Right-To Keep Silent 
The Elements
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