hey guys i was wondering if anyone could help me i have a frend and she is having a rough time arguing with her dad ecetra ecetra it so bad shes out of the house and with a foster family she finds it hard to talk about whats going on and shes holding back alot i just want her to tell mme whats going on if anyone has a spell/ritual i could peform that could maybe get her to talk to me tell me whats going on or somthing ...
I don't know, and honestly wow that's sad. I'm sorry to hear that. Now there is a way to go with this, here are a few suggestions.
* Tell her to apologize and say she's wrong. If she say's it, and means it then progress will happen.
* Tell her to explain her views, and to just get it out there. If she's having trouble opening up try telling her to write it out, or make a power point.
* Most importantly don't get involved, things will pass. Also tell her your there for her if she needs it, and help out. Heck try talking to her dad.
Her dad should consider this, if he truly loves his child, he will accept her for who she is, and what she does. Tell her to believe that things will work out. Things will, and tell her to try. Good luck and blessed be. Message for more.
shes alot like me and to be honest that scares me we think the same way so theirs no way getting round her head she and her dad have anger issues and their stubborn so it really doesnt work well when they try to sit down and talk about it and she just doesnt really talk to me atall about it and i feel that if she shares it i might be able to help
Forcing the situation wouldn't be the best idea. I would let her calm down for a few days if she's still acting angry or irritated. If she does trust you, she will talk to you. There isn't a spell or ritual to make someone talk to you, you just have to open yourself up to them and hope they will do the same.
Like EyesofZeus said, don't force it. Continued on from this, the more you push, the more she'll pull away.
I say leave it be, tell her your there for her, and will talk when she's ready. Everyone has problem's, it's how you learn to deal with them that makes your stronger. Does she have a religion? If so tell her to keep attached to that, and focus on school and that.
I had a hard time and those kept me going. Blessed be.
thankyou very much its just im worried about her she doesnt like talking she withdraws into herself gets really down and it wouldent be the first time that its resulted in self harm thats why im so worried
