Same lesson many ways

I have been a solitary white wiccan since I was 7yrs, not true I've had many teachers. Now 33 looking back at 17 I started doing things my way grad. out of school early to run off to the Army. From there I have been walking down the same path with the same set back i.e. Right when I have saved up money something goes wrong(in savings $800, car wont pass smog. So now I need a new car and all the fees attached) so $800+ turns into -$4000 and a monthly bill.
So what do I need to do to get off this path? It can't be a lesson yet to learn, and I clens my house often little neg. enryg. Just need a leg up, open for suggestions

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Stuff happens. What can I say. Just deal with it best you can. I am hoping that your luck will change. It happens to the best of us. Take good care of that new car!

Possible lesson to learn from this is acceptance. People say all the time that they are "okay" or that they believe in something when they don't mean it. You see this as a trial, an obstacle. But this is not. You need to try to accept this or it will only get harder for you. There is a possibility that this is your life, so try to make the most of it.

I would buy a Toyota since they have a reputation for being dependable. I've never had major problems with my Camry. Take a look on Craigslist since there may be better deals than from a Dealer, and possibly use your favorite type of divination to help you make a final decision. Of course, insist that you let a trustworthy mechanic (one who doesn't gouge you for problems you weren't even aware of) inspect the car. You can also get an OBD2 scanner tool to check the ECU on the car for trouble codes, which can indicate it needs expensive repairs. If buying from a dealer, ask to see the carfax report and read it to make sure it wasn't in a flood or severe accident. Hope this helps:)

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Just out of curiosity, how do you know that there is not a lesson there to be learned?

I don't and that's the true issues I'm having. It's the balance of happiness and success is out out wack. Every time I'm happy I'm not successful, and every time I'm successful I'm unhappy. I could be too that what I do for work is making me unhappy?

It very well could be about not being happy with your work. But, let me throw this out for you.

As you grow spiritually, the challenges become bigger and bigger. I know it seems like the opposite and it is supposed to get easier as you grow, but we never stop growing and learning. We get to a point where the old challenges don't help us grow, and we need bigger ones which give us bigger opportunities to grow. I would say that the lesson to learn is that happiness doesn't come from your job, car, financial situation or anything outside yourself. It's all about how you choose to act to a given situation. If you choose to act, including how you feel, instead of react then you are in control of yourself. That is the first step in being in control of your environment.

Of course, that is just my observation, based on the information you have given. You have to figure out if that is right for you. Hope this helps.

Dig it. You have help to put it in words that do offer me knowledgeable tools to help me thank you