Hello everyone. I had a Santeria love spell put on my boyfriend. I am madly in love with him. Everything was going well in our relationship. We were talking on a daily basis. Then I did the love spell and now he won't talk to me! Is this normal? If so why and how long will it be like this? He'll open my messages but not respond. What could have gone wrong?
Maybe he found out that you're into magic and has issues with it or maybe he somehow found out that you casted a love spell on him. Maybe it's all just a coincidence and things just naturally got worse around the time you used the spell.
You could try asking him what's wrong but if he's ignoring your messages, maybe that's his way of telling you he wants to end the relationship.
love spells never work it is messing with someones free will and that is never a good thing to do. un less they are harming another and it is your last option.
Re: SPELL PUSHED HIM AWAY By: Winchester1 / Novice
Post # 7 Jan 08, 2016
Maybe the universe felt You did a bad spell since you had him already and spun it the opposite direction,personally I don't believe in love spells and never do them.
Re: SPELL PUSHED HIM AWAY By: Lark Moderator / Adept
Post # 8 Jan 08, 2016
Looks like you were having this same problem back in November as well.
What you need to understand about love spells is that they won't make someone love you and keep on loving you no matter what. Love spells merely create an opportunity for love to happen. But if you don't do the hard work to keep a relationship going, communicate well, and act in a manner which would encourage someone to love you, then the spell will not keep that relationship going.
Sounds to me as though this isn't a relationship that isn't going to work. You can create an opportunity for love with your spell, but you cannot force him to love you in the long run. Perhaps you'd do better to let this relationship go and move on with your life.
Well, one, no one is perfect, you will annoy him sometimes, and he will annoy you sometimes. Accept this is him. Instead, you decided to use a spell to mold him into what you want. It might of backfired because you didn't cast correctly, but more likely it was the universe/gods teaching you a lesson. Next time, when your loved one becomes 'wishy washy' try talking about it instead of forcing a change against the person's will. Sometimes the problem could be he's worried about a test, didn't get enough sleep, or otherwise has a lot on his mind. It happens.
If I were you, I would give him some space. Tell him you feel he's been acting strange, and if there's anything you can do to help. Stop texting and messaging him [maybe once a week] and leave the conversation to when you see him. In a few weeks if he's still the same, go from there. You might also consider reversing the spell because [as far as I can tell] it wasn't needed and you're being taught a lesson.
Love spells are some thing any knowledgeable practitioneer will advise you to stay away from.
Not only it is ugly (to put it simply) to force one's feelings against their will and injust as well,but these spells BADLY backfire if casted wrong.
Besides,why would you cast a love spell on him if your relationship was going just right?
Forcing fate is not something magik shall be used for,if you are to ask me. I believe we shall use magik in such way that we go according to our good fate,or path,if you will.