Can someone explain?

I’m bothered with something that’s been happening since I was just a little girl. Sometimes when people really hurt my feelings and I just get so angry, really bad things seem to happen to them and it freaks me out a bit.

Now I’m older and sometimes I get into the worst fights with my boyfriend. He can say the most evil things that mentally destroy you and often I leave the house after an argument, totally sad, crying and in lots of mental pain. And every time something horrible happens to him. It’s different things, sometimes small like he wants to make pizza and the oven breaks, he needs to do something for work and the internet (on only his pc, it still works on my phone) stops. But sometimes it’s really major things like he got into almost a fatal car accidents with friends, he fell off his scooter and broke his foot, he got stabbed on a party. His life is always normal and calm until we get into a fight! And I am starting to get freaked out by it.

Can someone explain what is going on.
Why that every time him and me get into a fight, life turns against him? I’ve never put a spell on him or a curse or something. It’s just like karma always comes immediately when I get mentally hurt

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You may be unconsciously curing him. Depending on your state of mind after these events happen and how you feel about him.

Given what you have described, it may be best for you to separate yourself from him

You're un-consciously cursing him. Accidental bouts of magick have happened to me as well, but not in the same frequency and power as yours. I would suggest meditating and trying to remain calm. See what the main cause of all your arguments are, and see whether or not you can try to stop arguing or reduce arguments. Every time you get angry, just take a deep breath and try not to get too mad.

Another thought is that he is doing it to himself. By being in a negative and toxic headspace, one acts in an aggressive and careless manner. Such distractions can mean mouthing off at the wrong person, leading to a fight. Or driving aggressively and crashing. Or inflating minor problems (a web page being slow to load) into mashing the refresh and calling the internet broken. (Basically, making mountains out of molehills)

In all brutal honesty though, my bigger concern is in the toxicity in your relationship with this person. If such hurtful things are being done it may be time to start carefully considering why you are choosing to continue a partnership that is doing you no good.

i also agress...i think it is time to move on.if the 2 of you,really care about each other,your relationship should never get to those levels of agression.