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Hi im new here and I am having a problem and not sure how to get rid of it. In my life I knew a person who was definatley not good for me, I was bud to him for 7 yrs and addiction was rampant. I managed finally after many attempts to get a way from him and own my own power. I have recently foud out he has passed away with in the las yr and half, but even before I found that out he would torment me in my dreams, would controle me like he used to and the drugs would be happening again, ihave been clean off these drugs for several yrs now and am doing well. At the moment I am starting to work with crytals and learning about magik. I am taking it slow don't know lots yet, but am eager to learn, and I like the motto " Harm None" I just want him gone from my dreams theyare very upsetting tome and ifeel gross after having them, I don't want to hurt him but can I banish him to where he is coming from, can I protect myself from him, he was into some form of dark magic while alive but back then I never paid attention. I have smudged my home and myself, I have laid sea salt across doorways and windows, still he gets to me. Hope someone can help me . love and lite
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