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Hello,
i havent much to do with the world of magic and am mostly interested on how to break rather than cast a spell. Recently i was told by a psychic i have a spell on me and she was kind enough to break that and set me free successfully.
However, i realise that my father is showing very similar behaviour like mine under my (now gone) spell. He s practically behaving like a zombie, living with a woman who he would NEVER even pay attention to (completely boring, useless, uneducated, unemployed, not at all independent). It really seems like he s under some superior control, not really ever responding to things that would otherwise make him explode. This is a general observation, not just mine..
I m day by day more convinced that the mother of this woman (her family lived for years in central africa-the heart of voodoo) has casted a spell on my poor father and that he s doomed to stay like that until i try to help him somehow.
What i want to ask for, is a way to identify spells. Is there any way to find them, reveal the casted spells? I dont want to cast a spell myself because i believe all of this is a vicious cycle. Just want to identify the spell, tell my father and if not then ask a professional to remove it.
Please, this is VERY SERIOUS and if you can help me i will be extremelly grateful...

Thank you