1. Find a stick research the type of stick that your using and how it relates to magic. You can find this in the SOM tools.
2. Strip the stick and then sandpaper it and make sure you like the way it feels think about the good magik you will complete with it.
3. Anoint you stick (natural oils)
http://aromatherapy4soul.com/mnemonics.htm
4. Name your wand then dedicate it. In the ritual state what you want the wand to do as well as asking the gods for their help in blessing your wand.