Re: Why can't time change By: Lark Moderator / Adept
Post # 2 May 11, 2018
Sadly the laws of Entropy mean that time only moves forward and that what has been remains only in the past. We cannot use magic to travel back in time no matter how enticing that can be. What we can do is to decide to move forward and start taking steps to have a happier future than we did a past.
Time is a invented to display the speed a orgonasim moves from one place to another because everey thing moves at different speeds everey one or thing is different in time you can increase how fast you move or how fast you decay but you can not undo it and thats because it's a illusion a idea if you don't understand time its not their and because we use time to determine advancement you can devolve its but it's because it's been made a concept einstine said times erelavent so its only their because we made it a system no time no foword or backwards so you can't alter it but in the seance of movement
I am truly sorry for the pain you have endured in your life. The ones that invoke emotion are always the deepest scars that often never fully heal. I know everyone has their own highs and lows in life. Some let the lows get the better of them. It isn't easy. I will say, and this comes from many years of self exploring and realization, most of us spend our lives putting others before themselves. We do it without realizing it. It is, I believe, a natural instinct built within us. For one moment a day try to focus on you, not those in your life, but your inner self, your soul and all that encompasses what you believe in. You can justify everything that happens in your life if you trace it back. I know it sounds silly "everything happens for a reason", and when people say it to me when I am faced with trouble I get mad. No one wants to hear that, because its hard to accept and understand the pain you are faced with may actually produce some sort of good or development within you.
Instead of being caught wanting to live in the past or in a moment of happiness, use that to focus on the future. Use the happy moments to remember and get to where you need to be mentally and physically. Remember you are in charge of your future. You make your own choices and commitment. Start to focus on things that will impact your mental health in a positive light.
Rebuilding trust with someone else may seem impossible. You may forever feel like there is a hole in your heart. Trust me, I feel that way every day, but I never give up on the maybe. I always stay focused on the potential and possibilities that may befall me and I never overlook an opportunity to better myself, let it be a new relationship, a job promotion or even an opportunity to help someone (like you!).
I hope mentally you are in a safe place and you can allow yourself time to heal. Perhaps speaking with others going through similar pain might be therapeutic and you can get to a point where when you think back in time you smile from the memories instead of wanting to escape to them. Who knows what the future memories may have that have yet to be build by you.
Take care and I hope in someway you are able to find comfort. You are not alone in your pain although you may feel like it. Remember that.
