I presume there is such a spell, but I would suggest you try a healing spell to aid her in her recovery. Also, a change of scenery may actually be good for her.
Katinar I already havethe healing aid in place and hopefully her blood work from the labs will be positive again.
It's just this situation of this poor woman going tehir is really not conducive for health. She is going to come back more rattled on edge which her health REALLY DOESN'T NEED with this "so called" trip.
Hence all the more reason to figure out how to construct a spell to change a thought/outcome of a person's decision, very slowly cajoling them to re think their yes decsion to a dead set NO decision.
But Katinar I apprecaiet your speedy reply back to my questions. Thank you.
LdyGry this link with this spell recipe you gave me looks great one problem though, this relative doesn't wear a hat. And a hat is connected to one's head which would ultimately coax one's decisions and thoughts when worn. It was fantastic spell but grrr he doesn't wear a hat. He likes his bald spots being modeled off everywhere. ~Teeeheee~
Unfortunately I have to get creative here and I've never felt so stump before like this .
But I truly appreciate your reply and assistance as well.
Aelwyn his shampoo is a bar of soap followed by a nice coating of olive oil for his head ~LOL~.
But I might give the spells from LM a try as well.
I just feel that if I craft a spell recipe myself and make it very discreet enough to be controlled from my hands like a remote control I could at least tailor it to make him change his mule headed mind. I'm even worried his thick skull be able to penetrate the compel/command you type spells ~LOL~.
Firstly what has been suggested so far are all great ideas and to be perfectly honest I don't have much to add except to say have you considered suggesting alternate suggestions to them, fairly reguarly a change of environment can help people with conditions that may be affected by stress as it breaks the regular routine, just an extra little thought.
Many practitioner use skull candles to manipulate someone's thoughts or to get in their heads. You can bore holes in the candle and write small "thought papers," stuff them with herbs, and anoint the whole candle with condition oils. Skull candles can take a whole day to burn down when allowed to burn continuously, so there's plenty of time to really work the candle. You could also burn it in increments and it would really go far. Just practice good candle safety because these candles have a bad reputation for really burning wildly.
The website i gave you the link to in a previous post, Cat's Rants Confession of an Occult Mastermind, has a good article on fixing skull candles. You'll have to look around for it though.
DarkArt => Though I truly do agree with you, I must let you know I know my family & all their manipulative kindness means squat. This husband is anything but kind to her. This trip is anything but stress relieving, if anything its more stress inducing to the max. This poor woman DOES NOT need this particular change of scenery not with her health. If he was taking her somewhere else I wouldn't stop them but that's not the case and with easter here I don't trust him. The husband's side of the family is the most nastiest, judgemental, rude bunch I've ever had the misfortune of being related to. That being said.
LdyGry => That is a most phenomenal idea I know of a place that does sell skull candles and I have the ingredient components to change or at least finagel his decision to a big fat NO. Ohhh wow this is starting to come together me likey. Thank you to all of you and your wonderful input and ideas.
Aponi896 I realise that, that's why I asked if you had thought of an ALTERNATIVE trip, I truly believe that you will have judged the situation and decided that the currently planned trip is a poor idea but perhaps taking her somewhere she has been and enjoyed previously would help her. I don't know where you're from but perhaps somewhere with a mild climate from a happy childhood memory, it wouldn't have to be very far, it may even be up the road and you could take her yourself but I really do think something along those lines could really help, at least emotionally, it did me after my accident, although mine obviously wasn't a child hood memory, I admit I'm not really old enough to have them yet lol