No im sorry u misunderstood me my last post i was talking about a bigger picture. People mostly create their own problems. Mostly because they resist the easiness of living.
When negative energy is directed at me i disperse it, but it doesnt bother me, it doesnt touch me in anyway, it does not cause a single spark in my emotion. Thats the difference, u can call it "my problem" that the negative energy is being directed at me, but that problem is not really mine.
I am not a slave infact i live outside the matrix, unlike the 95% of the enslaved people on this planet.
Then please be clear with it, and just remember as s spiritual aspirant never to let your ego get in the way, most people pick up negative energy if they don't repel or shield from it, im just letting you know the basic details love and light
oh and 95% are not enslaved there are thousands of indigos, crystals and hundreds of rainbows filling the earth not to mention allot of people who are spiritually diligent and are ascending on their own.
I think you may be making a mountain out of a mole hill with the example I gave lol.
Yes. I like attention. As do most people in this world whether or not they like to admit to it.
I do not think the example I gave is one of me being upset that some random homeless lady wasn't paying attention to me. I think, it instead shows my moral standard of "Don't ask children not old enough for an allowance for money". I find that behavior to be low and manipulative since the children are not old enough to fully understand how or why they are being solicited.
You make it seem as though I was jealous that my children were being harassed. In some instances, this is the case. Such as Munchausen by Proxy. Last I checked, however, I wasn't using my kids to get attention. If I was, I'd implore people to call CPS on me and have them removed.
I can't disagree that some people do fit the bill you have described. I do, however, disagree that it fits everyone. As stated earlier, if 20 people find a fault of yours to be annoying, it would be foolish to think "Well, it doesn't bother me so they must have some deep seeded issue". I would call that lack of personal responsibility and denial of you being the cause of someone else's issue while manifesting your own.
You can't say that if pureindigo (sorry, needed someone else to be an example =P )has a problem with the guy down the street peeing on his lawn in broad daylight, that pure has a deep rooted issue with his sexuality and inability to be free with his body. He has a problem with the guy peeing on the lawn based on his personal standards. The guy PEEING on the lawn, we can easily say is the one with some issues...even if he doesn't see the problem with it and it fine with it.
Crazy people tend not to know they're crazy. Just as people at fault tend not to think they're are doing anything wrong.
i totally agree it all depends on the situation, you just need to balance your self, and if society cannot come into terms with that then they need to do some work, all we are simply trying to say, no one has a more better approach all the time
Re: Solving problems, By: Brysing Moderator / Adept
Post # 16 Nov 28, 2010
This discussion is going nowhere! The old adage, you cannot please everybody. Some people will like you, some will not. If you really expect all people to like you, or even agree with you, then you really do have a problem! If you expect yourself to like everybody, you are not living in the real world. Do not love your neighbour as yourself; they may not have the same tastes!
I'ma have to agree with Brysing on this one when he says "If you really expect all people to like you, or even agree with you, then you really do have a problem! If you expect yourself to like everybody, you are not living in the real world. Do not love your neighbour as yourself; they may not have the same tastes!"
In all honesty you can't please everyone and it's a nice thought, but so is democracy, and we've seen how far that's gotten the USA now haven't we? Communism, Capitalism, Anarchy, all look good on all paper, all seem like everyone benefits, but in all honesty the reason why these don't work on a mass scale, is the same reason we can't all get alone with everyone around us. We are all different, unique from one another, and in all honesty, everyone is corruptible, no matter how humble or sincere they may be.
Truth in it all, without conflict we are dull, lifeless and rather boring without any excitement at all. Am I saying that everything has to be a drama? NO, I'm not, but without these natural occurring conflicts things like the light bulb wouldn't have been created, or the defense tactics that we have (i.e. jet fighters, tanks, etc..) wouldn't exist at all.
I have to also agree with Sam in this case as well. Just because there be a conflict doesn't always mean it's something wrong with people involved. Look at Isreal and Pakistan arguing over LAND. Anyone who sees this land asks themselves, why in the world are these people arguing over a strip of desert? The answer is because they see it as holy, not because there is actually something wrong with the people, but because they believe in being the chosen of Yahweh, or Allah. They think the others as a whole group are wrong for following the wrong deity, hmm, now doesn't that sound familiar.
Anyways, the whole point is you can't please everyone, and you surely will have enemies with people who don't even know you or care about you. So you have to take life in stride, live in the moment, and don't let the petty crapola of the world bother you. There is no guarantee that we will be here tomorrow, take it in stride and take the small things with a grain of salt.
For a good example, the next time someone says something about your moma, who honestly cares? So what? Smile and nod and walk away. It's better to avoid a conflict that to start one, or even continue one that you didn't start in the first place.
I can't do nothing,but agree 100% with Maydayy.There is something you don't over people...There is not right thing to do or bad,no bad or good opinion.Instance:Something that disturbed you very much(the beggar asking your kids for money),you think it's a very bad thing.In the same time,for the begger it seemed the right thing to act with.Sure,youre thinking now"But I'm the one with a life,with a house,kids,car,I take care of myself,in the time the begger is a house-less,smelly person (you've said it) whici means nothing" OK,stop.Aren't all people the same? Do it means anything in the society today that if youre someone in a city,for someone who doens't shares the same rules? Imagine a kid who goes to a shop,asking to buy everything,with Monopoly money.The money that for the kid means real money,for the people at the shop means nothing.It's the same in the society today,it's a "Monopoly" made by someone,and 95% people (exactly liek Maydayy says,a person which thoughs I share since many years,a genius,I can say),which would mean nothing from the outter society.Nor you ,or the begger was right.People are not the same,are equal in opinion power in universe,not in the monopoly society today,but after all,the universe matters.There is no right or bad thing to do.If you dissagre,try to flank the problem from another angle.
As pureindigo sayd,a hand doesn't claps itself.But a hand from someone,and a hand from someone,both thinking they are /their oppinion is supperior,are 2 hands in total.2 hands can clap.
That is my oppinion,as I said,it is not good or bad,you can dissagree or agree,you cannot agree,you cannot dissagree,as it is nor bad or good.
