Wow this is just sad. in situation like this, its best to just get away from it all. But when you can't you must stand up for yourself. I konw it is not a good thing to harm others for selfish gains, but when you feel something is right then you will do it no matter what. So for thouse of us who do not like it much, state our point and go our way. As for thouse who think its best to get back at her, then let them speak out and share their curse, but its up to you Vampire Girl, you must decide what you want and act on it, and I do hope its not to harm her. I know how its like to be bullied and I do not like it much. The subject still stirs up anger in me. When I was yonger I was bullied alot especially beacuse I was a diffrent color. Any way vengence is what got me into magic, but now I learn to forgive and help thouse who cannot help themself. So Vampier Girl do what you must and take the consequence that will follow. May the Great Spirits guide you through.
I was bullied because I was overweight and wore glasses. I know that sounds cliched, but it's the truth. I've been called every name in the book. The ones that hurt most of all were being called ugly. Which was very confusing for me since other people, outside of school, thought that I was beautiful. Because of this I still have very low self esteem and cannot accept someone's comment when they call me pretty. I usually respond by saying that they're blind or that they need glasses. My point is that no one should have to go through bullying. It leaves emotional and psychological scars. You may not be able to see them but they are indeed very real. I quit school because of the bullying. I'm studying to get my GED but the major point is that those bullies ruined my life. So yes, I feel that those who are bullied deserve revenge. The victims deserve the right to put those bullies through what the bullies put them through. I am not able to forgive as easily as the rest of you. I'm sorry if that makes me a bad person...
I'm sorry you were effected by bullying so much Integra, but it was indeed your choice to be effected. People tried to bully me in school because I was the new girl, different, had hair to my waist, etc. But I didn't let it effect me. I smiled at them (sincerely) laughing inside at their childish ignorance. Did it bother me? Just a little. It annoyed me more than anything.
When they crossed the line, I didn't let them. If they invaded my space, I met them eye to eye and told them to back off. Sweet quiet girl suddenly very bold and angry was amazingly effective. I never had to get into a fight, although I was prepared to. When I saw them again, I would look them straight in the eyes, smile and say hi, regardless of whether I received a dirty look back. Most of the time they began looking down and avoiding eye contact! They stopped bothering me and either began ignoring me or became friendly with me. It's all about being in control or being controlled. You control with confidance, not violence or harm.
Right. That might have worked for you but it doesn't work for everyone. If you fight back some of them just wind up bullying harder. Do you honestly think that I took it? No. I wasn't much of a fighter, granted but in grammar school I got back at them the only ways that I knew how. I would kick them or just shoot comebacks at them. In middle school, I gave up trying to fight them physically and just went at them verbally. It still didn't help! In high school I just decided to drop out. Fighting back isn't always the best option. Sometimes it just doesn't help. Especially in East Hall or should I say East Hell? I hated that school!
Yes i am small so people pick on me easy and as i got a little bit bullied in primary school i was determined to come back as a great person and happy in life once in high school. I became best friends with her and then of course she ruined my life ... i have no self confidence no matter what i do i like dancing so i tried street dance to boost my confidence but it didnt work and i get the whole sticking up for yourself but when i do that they go round bitching saying im horrible and it makes things even worse. .And dont worry i dont want to hurt her physically just mentally like she did to me i was happy now i have no self confidence anymore and i dread being in the same room as her cause shes so "perfect".
To tell you the truth no one ever really needs to cast a curse because curses are worked out of impulsiveness and usaully backfire because you can be blinded by your own rage, espacially if you plan on using dark entities, which may happen anyway because like attracts like so you'll be attracting lower astral entities to help you known or unknown plus they like to stay around and cause trouble for the practitioner. Those who practice the craft in a dark way useally know this that why they have so many loop holes that hopefully get them out of the mess they have to create to cause a mess in anothers life without creating one in their's. So if you aren't well studied in the dark arts and know how to escape the unkown triggers of a curse weather backfire or hostal entities being attrated then I suggest one not to partake in any cursing or hexing of any sort..
Bindings are usually the way to go and since it sounds like shes the one causing an uproar you casting a binding is well justified, I'll give it to you but don't start using it willy-nilly on others for no good reasons because bindings can backfire as well if it isn't well justified.
-Circle of salt spell: To bind a wrongdoer by their own actions, is a great spell and strong but if you can't get strands of her hair then its uselless so heres a modern bind thats easy:
You'll need a black pen or pencil,rubberband, and paper cut into a 3inch by 3inch square (All sides will be 3 inches)
-Start by writing the first and last name of the target in the center of the paper in capital letters (Ex: JANE DOE),at the same time seeing her/his face in your mind, you can let your emotions (anger) come in(Builds energy) just see the targets face as it is with nothing happening to it.
-When you finish writing then name cross it with an inverted pentacle (Upside down star in circle- Its not santanist just widdershins magick- working against negativity,etc...) -The name should be in the middle of the star but if not its okay...
-Fold it twice (the top 2 points of the star should be together, then fold it agian the top poins are now at the bottom with the single point of star- so now you have a small square of paper)
-Then wrap the rubberband around the paper 3 times (Doesn't matter if the rubberband squezes the paper- means the binds tight then)
-Raise the paper to your temple (The little dip on the top side of your face by the end of your eyebrow)- continue to see the face of the target and say 3 times:
"To be protected from you,
This magick charm I will do,
with these words I bind thee,
For you to let me be,
To be protected from your harm,
I now seal this charm."
Place the charm under your right shoe (you should be wearing shoes) and stomp the charm 9 times (do it slowly so you don't lose count or mess up, 9 repesents completion and will seal the spell and make it done..) after the 9th stomp; say: "SO MOTE IT BE!"
Also you don't have to stomp so loud...
Its easy and practical and great for those in the broom closet becuase you can do it anywhere(The park maybe, in your room,etc... Plus theres nothing suspicious about someone with paper,pencil or pen, and rubberband or stomping paper wrapped in a rubberband...) Also I know it looks like I wrote a lot but the spell is literally like done in 2minute to 5 minutes... I just wrote alot so one may also have understanding and not just the jist of it all I give knowledge as well...
I hope all goe's well for you vampire girl!!! :)
Blessings Be!!
Never take the rubberband off for it will break the spell, don't tell others as well its better to keep it to yourself. The longer the charm stays intact the stronger the spell will get so bury away from your home or in her yard (That should definatly be a hard hitter)plus the earth's energy will feed into the charm as well... She'll lose intrest in doing you harm forcefully plus people tend to justify in their own mind that its their idea not to do harm to you anymore so that strengthens it as well. The more she trys to work against you she'll fail terribly also her own negativity will turn on her, her animosity will truely be her own plus she'll definately get a taste of her own medicine because rather than dishing it on you it'll turn on her, you don't even have to move a fingure anymore for she'll be doing all the work herself.. So you'll be safe ... Like I said you don't need a curse this is a nicer way of putting an end to her mishaps and keeping you safe from her harm.
Also if you decide to keep the charm just in case you yourself want to break it for whatever reason then keep it in a safe place also keep it just in case that wasn't enough to hold her (usually the bind is a definate enough to hold someone of ill itent for they strengthen it them selves).
Wait a month to see truely the effects trust me the charm works within days but if she can fight against it (Some people are naturally just filthy in nature), Then set the charm whole all on fire, and say 3 times as it burns:
"Let thy animosity be thy own."
Trust me it will really put a whammy on her!
But don't do that unless she isn't being affected by the bind strongly enough...
The bind is strong enough but just in case...
Remeber to be a good witch there so many alternatives than to just jump into these so called lables of black magick...
Remeber like attract like..
Blessings Be!!!
Thankyou this sounds the perfect thing to do as i do believe in Karma so i guess a curse could back fire on to me i dont want to mess my life up anymore than it already is . I can get these things and do it easily thankyou so much for your help :) much appreciated
