Of course there are karmic debts but don't let anyone tell you not to do this spell. If it will make you feel better. There are ways around karma. If there weren't then no one would perform black magic. Which is precisely what any spell that interferes with another's free will is. Black magic. My suggestion is to do a love spell from the internet but instead of simply concentrating on the ideal man concentrate on the love that you want back. Also you don't need someone else to perform this spell for you. You can always perform it for yourself. Here's a simple spell.
Take some salt in your right hand and throw it in an open fire. While doing so, utter these words.
"It is not the salt I turn to fire, but the heart of (insert name here) that I desire. Let him have no peace of mind until he come to me."
For infinite power I would suggest doing it on a Friday. This is the day of Venus, the goddess of love and is perfect for love spells. Wait for the new moon, which is also perfect for love and romance or you could wait for the full moon, which works for love spells. To top it off I would suggest doing it in one of the hours of Venus that occurs at night. First: 7:11 PM - 8:23 PM 2nd: 3:40 AM and 4:52 AM.
However I would advise you to be most careful. If you decide that you do not want him at a later date it might be rather difficult to get rid of him.
Is there Any spell that annother person can Do for me? Dont want patents To see:/ i want To live with this man forever, for 5 years i have been wanting that:( and i still Will for 100 years if so
Heh. Sorry, honey. I've got enough karmic debt of my own to worry about. I don't need yours to add to my long list. If you honestly want him back you're going to have to do it yourself. Be damned the consequences. Also I would recommend doing this when everyone in the house is asleep. That way you're less likely to get caught.
Instead of making a bonfire, make a small one. Use strips of paper as kindling and place that kindling in a boiler or pan. Light one strip of paper on fire before tossing it in with the others. Once that is going get your salt ready and do the spell. Once the fire has completely gone out run just a few droplets of water in the pan to douse any left over embers and then dispose of the ashes outside. Bring the pan back inside, wash it and put it back in it's proper place before anyone wakes up.
Do you have to study for multiple years to be able to do a spell? No. You can do a spell without having to study at all! Will it work without studying? Yes, I do believe that it will. I have performed spells without studying and they have all worked for me. Is it better to study and understand the concept of magic before you begin? Possibly, especially if you want to create your own spells. But if you're wanting to perform one that is already laid out before you, then no. You don't need to study anything. Just have faith in yourself, in the magic that you work and in the fact that this spell will work to bring you your intent.