try looking for WIC and bleview through google. There are several websites that you can look through, to get the help you need. The best thing i can tell you is that you should go to your local hospital and ask them for a list of helpful refrences that could possibly help you out, either by means of a little donation money, help with the clothing for the child (once its born) and making sure there is someone there for you so you can work to make sure that your child is well taken care of. You obviously don't need this guy, no matter how bad it hurts, you are a strong woman, and you need to realize that.
That might be so nightshade, but the truth was not what i needed or asked for... i wanted spell suggestions, that's why i posted on this forum... and thanx to all the private messages i got from all the helpfull people on here, i got exactly that...spell suggestions! and it worked!! yay!
Sorry but it's a PUBLIC site and when people read things either they really agree with or that really irritate them, they're going to offer their two cents about it. So whether it's what you wanted or not, when you post something like that you're going to get peoples' opinions. *shrugs* yet again...just being honest
To delete the thread...just delete your first post...that will remove the whole thread..
its really weird that you post on a public forum but dont want peoples true opinions....i suggest since your going to have a baby soon that you stop trying to make it about you...its about your child now...deal with the responsibility....and if your sorry excuse for a boyfriend ever hurts you or your child...do not come back to this site asking for sympathy....we have warned you.
I wanted to write and respond as well. You are better off without Mr. Hormones.......sometimes it is better to raise children on your own than to try and win him back.
He was clear with you about not wanting a relationship and not wanting to be a father. The "ball" is in your court now.
Being older than you and with quite a few years of parenting on my experience, raising a child (much less my 4) is difficult, and stressful. Children pick up on these stresses and it affects them.
My best advice to you would be to move on and forget the loser(pardon my judgement) and focus on that child because you will need to be both a mom and dad to this child. When the time is right....you will find someone who isnt such an ass to you. There are plenty of good guys out there.....get rid of this one, heal for a bit and focus on your child.
I am a father and I am happy my son was born. Please, focus on your chile and not him, because if he isn't there, then he wants nothing to do with you or your child.
