My ex girlfriend

I don't mean to be harsh, but the relationship and your need for it seemed unhealthy. I'd rather see you happy.

All I want is help to get to at the very least communicate with me cause if I can keep her from the outside influences I can win her back ..... I just want her back in my life she means the world to me ..... When she's around things just go right when were apart everything goes to shit.....

And yet you fought frequently, were overly jealous, and so forth. Enough so that these outside influences observed and felt the need to intervene on the behalf of somebody they care about.

What feels right when one cannot view the situation clearly is not always right. You miss her, certainly. That does not mean you are good for her. Or that the situation is good for you.

Well thank you ....

Find happiness, friend.

May i suggest giving the situation a bit of time to heal, reflecting on what you did wrong and how you can improve. Then mabey try talking to her again.

Time can sometimes be the best cure :)

no i want to be invisible

Talk to her. Words in itself can be magical. If it doesn't work. I have just two words for you. Move on

Shadowstar invisibility is impossible, physically, and otherwise irrelevant to the conversation.

I really dont see the point of useing a love spell because its forcing someone to love you which means they dont really love you for who you are well thats my opinion.