can a wand be bad?

I would recommend starting with a couple of books that should help you with understanding and then learning how to do magic.

"Spells and How They Work" by Janet and Stewart Farrar

"Modern Magick" by Donald Michael Kraig

"The Veil's Edge" by Willow Polson

"Real Magic" by Isaac Bonewits

I'm glad I see ppl think "demons" arnt necessarily evil.
I have no idea why I've been empowered to build wands... i almost sound ridiculous but is working out nicely. It's addictive, and they look cool it's like I was born to do it lol.

Listen like any
tool it can be harmful if made incorrectly or used incorrectly it is harmful.

Only if You decide to beat someone off the head with it.

i once herd a wand chooses its weilder much like a staff thus makeing me think it could also be possesed and make its user do bad things

Then thats probably when you start to cleanse your tools, if they were from another place and imbue them with your power and energy?

smart

This things are bad. They've killed Flys & other insects that have crawled onto them to die. My dog chewed one up and keeps loosing her teeth. I can't throw them out now someone has to want them or maybe not.

" for channeling energy "
Thats it !!!
Its just a tool
In skilled hands it works to focus energy
Much like a lens

Then I'm affraid I'm in possession of a cursed or possessed object of my own creation. The penalty for destroying? And how to do so PLEase??