Hi everyone, I'm in need of help... my fiance's ex is giving us a hard time even though they do have a little together she is trying her best to ruin us... i need something something that would stop her in her tracks and take all back the pain she has put upon us from the very beginning...anyone have an idea... all i know is i need something fast... just as long as it doesn't come back to me... she has caused us so much emotional pain and anger it's just unreal.... help?? thank you much in advance and best blessings to all...
Tell her to ***k off. And the little things that your fiance and her do have together, tell him to get rid of it. You don't need old associations in your relationship.
I can't get rid of his daughter hun, i love her dearly... she is using their daughter to get back at him... she has taken everything and is trying trying to ruin him.... in more than...so many ways she can possibly think of....
Didn't know you were talking about his daughter.(Your post didn't say it) Excuse me please. If she can't be cordial then HE needs to talk to her and give him a piece of him mind.
She is a very mean person... try for custody we would need proof that she is unfit... which i know she is and she has stolen from a lot of people as well.... even the state.. let's just put it to u this way... he has to give her 650$ for child support every month PLUS 550$ for HER in alimony! she works over 40 hours a week at a good d*** PAY! she's got two college degrees works as an accountant... come on! and she is doing her best to ruin us... always trying to find the idiotic thing just to make US look bad... listen I'm just a CNA and i work for pennies and i have 3 kids as well... I love her daughter to death like she would be my own and I would adopt her in a heart beat if it comes to that... we are not bad people, we mind our own business and stay out of trouble... we stay home and go to work and spend time with our kids... as far as i know she has worked a lot under the table... she is money hungry and trying to get more out of us...and it has to stop...we need to find a way to prove it.. just need a little boost from up above so things could be set right where they should... she does belong with us, she is happy here...i don't know what to do, i'v tried a truth spell... well it did work but not enough to prove anything... i need something solid something that someone knows about her and can come to us with proof.... know what i mean??
His daughter?
They need to have a serious talk, and he needs to explain it to her that he loves her and nobody can replace her, not even his new love. Both of you have a place in his heart and these types of love can't be compared.
But it is really important that he doesn't leave it between you and his daughter. He need to come and say that not one of you can humiliate the other, because it hurts him. His word is probably going to play a big part in the solution of this problem.
About the ex...
What kind of law justifies that husband is to pay money for his ex?
Money is only to be for the child. The ex is a grown up woman and doesn't need anyone to pay for her. She is financially independent
and if she is older than 26 there is no way she should receive any kind of payment, if it isn't her own well earned salary.
I'l check if I have something for such cases, but I really don't know...
When it comes to his daughter... i don't put myself in between them.. at all what' so ever! and never had... i love her very very much and i would love for her to be with us...iv seen woman trying to make their new love chose and i will not do that... i have kids of my own and i know what it is to be pulled away,I actually encourage him to spend more time with her as much as he can because i know he loves her dearly... the problem isn't his daughter at all... it's the mother!... She is as far as i know 37 or 38... they live in Maine... at the time of the divorce she lied to the courts stating she was incapable of working... and she was only able to work 2 days a week... well the week after the divorce was finally... she started working full time ,...plus...i always thought that as soon as she was able to work full time he wouldn't have to pay her alimony but i guess it doesn't work that way...i'm divorce as well and i don't get nothing for alimony and i only get 305 a month...and i have 3 kids not just one... he has one daughter and has to give her 650... you do the math...plus after the settlement... he had to give her almost 20 000$... just because she was married to him and the courts forced the issue... she then turned around and applied for fuel assistant?? and the state covers her daughters meals at school etc???.... hello!!! what's wrong with this picture.... after all this is said and done... that was last year that he gave her all this money... she then turns around and asks him to write a letter for acap... aka for fuel assistant telling them how much he gave her since July... well he did which came up to over 20 000$... she called him up and harassed him over the phone saying... you didn't have to write all of that, now i wont be able to get the help.... all he asked her was... what did you do with all that money you got from me...none of his business... though the daughter tells us a lot that goes on there but i know the mom keeps a lot from her... he was told me way back that he couldn't understand why they where always broke... she made a lot more than i do and now that we live together, i have my debts and he still his debts..and we still have plenty left over... she was using the money but had nothing to show for it...anyways it's really frustrating for the both of us, he loves me very much and so do i, but every time that woman calls it gets him upset though he hugs me i know he's pissed because she does everything she can to make him feel that way and it's just not right. i want my man to be happy and i will do everything in my power to make him happy...does this explain more of my situation??...lol sorry but man does it ever feel good to vent... he's not home tonight so i was hoping on casting.. but i'm stuck with only candles...Sweets
