i am deeply hurting , its been 8 months since my first love left me due to distance he treated me sweet just like he treated me disgustingly . i wanna know if i will ever stop hurting , i especially miss him these days cause we met around these months , you guys cant imagine how bad this hurts :' [ someone do me a reading or something please ? i also wanna know if he ever loved me or misses me :((
Hello;
A wise person who lost a loved one as you, stated so simply yet impressively elegant; It is better to have loved and lost, than to have never have loved at all.
I know you hurt, I feel for you, you have my empathy, really. But, you were lucky to have loved.
Here is another wise statement about love lost;
If you love someone, let them go, if they come back, your love was meant to be.
Mending a broken heart is difficult and slow. What doesn't break you or kill you, makes you stronger. Such is life. You get knocked down but, you get up again and, they're never going keep you down.
Just remember this; You are a good person. You are worth it.
That guy lost. You are better off without him, if he left you. You don't need any negativity in your life at this time that you are just beginning. You want someone that will encourage you, not drag you down.
I know it's hard dear reader but, try to get some "me" time at least 3 months with your best friends and have a good time, enjoy your youth.
Blessed Be.
I am trying my best, he was my first love ,and i had a very strong connection with him. we loved talking to each other, i have never been with a guy that long 7 months we talked everyday and he was a big part of my life , i loved him so deeply .it was horrible when he left cause i was gonna kill myself , but something made me stop. i met him around these months so it hurts cause these months remind me of him, but i;ll try my best to forget him
What you are suffering from is "love withdrawal." When you are in love, your brain is flooded with happy chemicals; when you break up, they are suddenly cut off, and your brain doesn't know how to cope. In time, it will re-learn its normal balance. If it's any consolation, even the one who initiates the breakup will suffer this withdrawal... though not quite as bad.
One thing you can do to help is eat a little chocolate, preferably the dark kind. There are some rituals that can help, too.
Finally, it may help to know that your relationship was meant to end. It's a rite of passage, like getting a driver's license. No one ends up marrying the same person they first felt like they loved. The person you do eventually find, you will feel even more deeply for.
I know this doesn't help much. If you really really loved him Like you say you will not actualy forget him or lose your love for him. I love a girl that way even though she hurted and broke me countless of times. but in time you will be able to move on but you will still always love him.
Actually, I have good news, ForgetMeNot - that's not true; you'll find out for yourself soon. You will NOT always love your teenage girlfriends or boyfriends.
You will eventually look back on it with fondness, but no regret. Trust me: I went through the same. I am now just barely out of my teens... and though I was ready to kill myself when my first love left me, today, I have no more feelings left for her than I do for my first toilet.
Like I said, it's a chemical thing. It will fade, and all that's left will be good memories. (Bad memories tend to fade more than good ones - it's another neurological thing.)
