Removing over-bearing and negative people

Hi there! I've been browsing around this site for some time now and this is my first post. I come from an incredibly religious family. I have a controlling grandmother and an even more controlling mother. I love them both dearly and would never wish any harm to either of them, but the strangle hold that they have over my life is unbearable. I would appreciate it if someone had some advice for me or if you could suggest a spell for independance.

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By the way I'm 23 years old. I was forced to move in with my grandmother because of my financial difficulties. Any help would be appreciated. :-)

I'd simply suggest going the good way to get a better long term result. If you do practice Work some luck, opportunity and needed wealth. mix in some hard work there also. Im most places you can hold down an apartment on your own with a job, this will not allow much spending room. Your 23 and single. There are many individuals around your age looking for room mates to cut the cost of rent. It is not realiable but a choice.

Then there is the choke hold. They can not physically stop you from your own ideals and beliefs unless they finance them. To live under the roof I can suggest going over the budget to see what you need to contribute to earn adulthood under her roof. A rent, utility responsibility and grocery contribution. For rent and utility you are going to have to pay a set percentage. if there are 2 people 50% 3 people 33% and so on. With Groceries take an honest look at what you eat and pay for it. This is something you have to sit down and make a contract for even if it is just on a piece of lines paper. For your and her benefit.

I do not know you exact situation so this is the best I can do

As for a spell. It is better to develope a spell that is filled with aspects you believe, but if you have the ability to believe in a spell that is not personal I can write one based on what I can pull from your message. Let me know if you are better with simple or complex and a brief description of your beliefs so I can better tailor one for you. You'd give me a good enough idea if you let me if and how you cast your circle.

Well since I am a beginner a simple spell would be more suitable. As for my personal beliefs I believe in only letting light and positivity into my life. I don't believe in hurting others to get what you want. I want, more than anything, to be respected. The controlling and over bearing nature of my mother and grandmother drains the energy out of me, I don't even have the strength to stand up for myself. I just need something to remove their negative influence over my life so that I am free to pursue my dreams. I hope that made sense. :-) Thanks for the help.

i always suggest candle magic for beginners. i'd use luck and wealth, those will help you gain financial freedom so you can move out. not get rid of your family, but at least give you some privacy.

Use a honey jar spell to sweeten them up. Google "honey jar spell" and you should get plenty of ideas.

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Thanks all appreciate the help. :)