Is There a Spell for This

Hello all,

Firstly, I don't study or practice magic. I am not even informed or learned in the different beliefs concerning it or practicing it, so please forgive me in advance for any offensive or incorrect terms/ideas.

I wouldn't be on this site if weren't desperate. I have a lot of gay feelings and urges. The only sexual attraction I feel is directed at men... And that's fine. I'm not anti-gay. I have thought about this for years and have reached the conclusion that I do not want to live a gay lifestyle. I can be romantically attracted to women (unfortunately, not sexually).

I've tried so many different methods to leave my homosexual thoughts behind and make myself like women. Is there anything out there that can help me in my struggle to fight my own urges? Or, better yet, to reverse them? Can I cast a spell or have one cast on me or anything like that? Please forgive my ignorance.

Again, I have no qualms with gay people. I've just chosen the path I'd like to take.

Thank you for your time,

Benjin

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sweetie if you're gay you're gay theres really not much you can do im sorry

Thank you for your response and kindness, but I have made up my mind to fight this with whatever means are necessary. Any suggestions in that effort would be appreciated.

Personally I don't think that you're accepting your self for who you are. And with that you are trying to force your self to be that which you are not in your sexuality. Trying to do so can be very stressing and hurtful. In a way it's like trying to force a naturally feminine guy to be masculine; or a tomboy girl to be a girlie-girl; forcing religion on a person; etc. It can be harming to the body, mind, and emotions. You can accept it as being who you are and be happy about that or try to change who you are (by what it sounds like you are.) It can be done but it would be difficult. Who can honestly say how it will play out? You could end up having lingering homosexual tendencies or they could be completely gone. It's just as well a possibility that you could find the one woman who will be the one that will get you to be heterosexual. If that's how you want to be then go for it. But you have to try. You have to truly want it. Give it honest effort. And in my opinion even though magick could potentially help you in this matter I don't believe that it should be used for such a task. There are many things that are better done manually than with magick.

Um yeah, I don't know of a spell for that. Probably because no one wants to do that. You'd be much better off learning to accept it.

Being a Gay Guy myself, I actually find this insulting, extremely insulting infact.

One, there is no spell to do what you are asking.

And Two, Sorry hun but as said by Lady Gaga "You were born this way baby!"

Its better to live as yourself than live a lie. Also life isn't about Sex, its about living and having fun. Romance is much more important than 20 minutes in bed

Please don't take offense. I'm not condemning or even looking down on your choices. I admire those who live gay lifestyles happily, but I don't agree with Miss Gaga's theory. Many may be born this way, but I don't believe I was.

But I digress. I didn't come here to offend or to debate. If there is no spell to give me the strength to fight this, I'll try elsewhere.

And to Vanitys Fire, I had a sneaking suspicion that turning to magick was the easy way out. I think you're right. Thank you.

Dear Benjin.please mail me, I have some tips. There is no guaranty in result,but I will try. I see your point . Darwish

Well, this goes against my beliefs to suggest a spell for you considering that this is actually a psychological problem, and that it is only natural for you to think about men as you do, if it weren't then you wouldn't even think about men that way.

As it is probably something you don't want to hear, I will not rant about how you should embrace your natural state of being.