Ok so i never believed in black magic until this new girl came to work at my job. She is very close to my manager and wears all black and black eyeshadow. She does not like me and ever since ive been promoted to assistant she has started lashing out at me. I feel a heaviness in my chest when shes around and its so intense it almost hurts. Ive been getting pains all ovet my body lately like intense cramps and it hurts. I dont know this girls intentions or her life outside of wrk but i kno her bf is in rehab for drugs and she is pregnant. I just get this feeling shed done something to me. I gotta figure out what it is so i can stop the feelings. They r very heavy and only when shes around me. Any ideas? This is my last resort so anything would be appreciated :)
You sound like an empath,an empath is someone who can feel other people's emotions,maybe she has the same feelings you get when you're around her and you are just feeling what she feels,studie shielding,it can be used by empaths to keep other people's emotios separate from there own.
Re: I need help or something By: WhiteRav3n / Knowledgeable
Post # 3 Jul 03, 2012
Just because she wears black doesn't automatically make her a magick practioner, especially one of "black magick". She is probably "emo" or "gothic" and a very negative person. Like was said, your picking up on her negativity. Some people project it outward more than others. For all you know the pains you feel could be from drugs, "cutting" or an abusive boyfriend. Or the negativity could just be so strong, your feeling it as pain. I've picked up books in bookstores that "hurt" to touch because someone who picked them up before me was so negative they left behind a strong imprint. When I sense someone that strongly negative, I automatically protect myself. I've been doing it so long, its just second nature now.
Learn to shield and do it everyday before work, and when you are around her, do so in your mind to reinforce the shield. Alternatively you can use an amulet of hematite and black touramine or another amulet of your choice that works for you. It may not eliminate the feeling entirely and I'm sure you'll still notice everytime she walks into the same room. But it should eliminate the physical pain and feelings of illness.
How do i create a shield? Ive never had these feelings before but they have been getting more intense over time. I dont know whats wrong with me and um SO sensitive to other people its emotionally exhausting sometimes for me. I also find i notice things other people dont too.
Start carrying Jasper (any Jasper will do, but especially red) or Black Tourmaline in your pocket. Touch it frequently with your right hand if you are right-handed.
Wear around your neck, or better yet, stick it in your bra.
Both stones are excellent in dispelling and protecting against negative energy.
Where can i get those stones at? So its a common trait i read and did some research on it and its..exactly how i am as a person. My mom is also very emotional.
Well she might be one of those goth girls who dresses like that and you'd assume that because a lot of Wiccan and fake magic users (Vampire spells and such) are teenage girls who dress in black and think it makes them a witch
It all roots back to that episode of Charmed with that goth girl who could shoot fire from her hand so most people assume it will make them like that
Her hate for you most likely means she feel the most emotion around you and from that you feel the most around her also
