My question is: has anyone had similar experience with casting a love/lust spell and instead of the desired result, the subject started becoming ellusive or avoiding you (reducing contact)?
What could have happened or what might be the causes?
Hmm.. Well first of all, most love & lust spells are very wrongful.. And you should not use them. When dealing with love, it is supposed to come naturally and physically. Not at all magickally. So when performing such horrid spells to specific people, it'll come back really bad. The desired person does not know, and it would not be the same. That is why the "Wiccan Rede" effect goes into place, you harm no one. Or the result will come back definitely 3 times as bad, such as the "Three-Fold Law". Some people call it karma kicking in and showing what must be done. Now I may not know much about this topic or when it is magick-related, but it seems like common sense. Let that be a lesson learned to you. Good luck! :)
I don't even believe in karma and all that, but love spells do usually go wrong because love shouldn't be forced. When it is, people end up hurt. So no, I can't say I've had that experience because I've never tried that type of love spell. It obviously wasn't meant to be. Reverse the spell, do a cleansing ritual on yourself to let go of any negative emotions about the situation, and if you have to do another love spell, try one that doesn't target a specific person.
Count yourself very lucky it didn't work. For any spell to work you need to raise enough spiritual energy to have an affect in the physical realm. Any compulsion spell is psychic rape and raising that much nasty energy can have some seriously awful side effects.
If you do a spell to bring love into your life, you'll get better results with fewer problems.
mmmmmm I think you made something wrong with the spell,
If you perform a spell correctly of course it will works.
you must to revise what do you did, meditate, use the tarot to discover what was wrong, and to chose the correct spell, maybe you must try another spell, firts perform a correct cleaning of your self, to clean the bad enrgies that can block or harm your spells.
And then perform a different love spell.
I recommend to you, to use a spell for only one objetive, only for love or only for lust. is more simple and effective.
and remmenber you can choose a white magic or black magic spell