Hello All. I am a somewhat new caster, but it seems I've really got a nack for it. :-) I am trying to find a Enchantment spell, wondering if anyone can help me with it. I bought a engagemnt ring from a pawn show and have been wearing it on my neck with pink and red string. My boyfriend and I recently "took some time off" (whatever that means!), and I am working on some COME BACK TO ME spells, but I would really like to incorporate my ring some how. Enchant it to make him finally commit or something under those lines. Any Suggestions? Would love to her from you! Thanks!
hi i'm new aswell but i'm not sure if you want to do that only because useing ur powers would force him to do something he wouldnt on his own so u should give that some thought but honestly if u think it would help go for it sorry i dont know any spell for that but i'm sure this website has something or some1 can help you...well i hope everything works out with u and your boyfriend best of luck to you
I hope that you cleansed the ring prior to your stringing it on your red cord.
Commitment is such a tricky thing, especially in this day and age.
It is helpful to really develop a strong bond of friendship before moving onto the Love Bond. Give your boyfriend some space and work some magick to make you exude a more loving self to those around you.
I just want to add my voice to those you've already heard. I concur with all they've said, and want to congratulate you on having sought advice instead of just pursuing something you think you want.
If I were to do something like what you were thinking, I'd perhaps try something like trying to get the stone to help you to emulate that which your spirit truly is, in order to draw other loving (caring, thoughtful, etc) spirits to you. Have it perhaps give you the power to show yourself or find strength or whatever you know within you is not showing outwardly. That is only an idea, mind you. I do tend to not do spellwork that affects others, unless it is to help them to be able to recognize things within themselves and to work through it for their own best spiritual gain. That may work counter to drawing someone TO you, and you need to be willing to allow others to grow without asking for them to grow in the direction that includes you.
Thank You all for all your kind advice. This gentleman and I have actually been seeingeach other for over 4 years. I know he is in love with me, but, he has a real problem with commitment. Two really bad relationships in his past that I think really scared him. When we are together it's like the very first time we met. He says I am his best friend, he calls me every morning, every afternoon, we work 2nd shift together then he calls me as we are driving home and talks for hours until he goes to bed. But, he is very insecure. If he sees me talking to another man, and most of my friends are male. He won't act outwardly jelious,but he will start to back off and then he starts calling old girlfriends and says things like "well we're not in a commited relationship, I don't know what I want". I honestly beleive he is afraid of his own feelings or felling volunerable. He even said he didn't want to look like a SUCKER. So, I don't want to MAKE him love me, I want him to just let go off his old bad habits of insecurity, and see things how they are. that we are good together and we do truly care about each other. Dag, I even fetch his robe and slippers when I am with him. I have never done that for a man. Plus, I am the only woman that he has given a tooth brush to that sits right next to his. Ahh it's so cute. Do you think I am really wrong for wanting him to finally commit?
