HELP! I am in desperate need of a love spell that will work. I am new to spellcasting and not very knowledgable. First Ipurchased a Come To Me candle from a nearby craft store, came home and followed the directions as the lady told me. It didn't seem to work, or either I was too impatient. I then began reading more, joined this site and tried a couple more spells. I don't know if Iam being impatient or my spells just aren't working. I read a little on some different herbs and wanna try my own spell, but not really sure how to begin. I know love spells aren't really recommended, but Iam desperate to have my ex back NOW, and not sure if it will happen without a little help
First of all, magick does not mess with free will. So if you are trying to make someone fall in love with you, it will not work. And yes, you may be too impatient, magick requires time to take proper effect.
Some options to consider for the spell to work are:
1. Sage the area you're in
2. Light candles and incense to set the mood
3. Think positive thoughts and have the positive energies needed
4. Get rid of all the negative spirits and energies in the room (Tip #1)
5. Meditate to calm yourself
I don't wanna try to make him fall in love with me, we were together 6 months so the feelings are already there. Due to our current situation he felt we shouldn't be together. What I really wanna do is draw him to me and open our lines of communication. He refuses to take my calls to even discuss ways to make things better, just basicly no communication at all. It's only been 2 wks but feels like an eternity. What type of spell can Iput together on my own
Ya I think it's best not to try anything on the mystical side. Hell I am new to this and I already know it may backfire on you. Two schools of thought on the matter.
School 1 is that it doesn't work the way you expect it to and it leaves you in worse despair than what you feel right now.
School 2 is that it does work, but it works too well if you know what I mean. Anything you put out, good, bad or grey area will come back to you whether you intend it or not and its best not to hurt yourself even further.
Don't think like that. You do seem to mean well, I understand that. You just need to keep trying either with that guy, or someone else entirely. Look into your heart and you'll know what to do. If he comes around, he comes around. If he doesn't, try with someone else. Just don't do it with a love spell. If anything try finding a way to boost your confidence or luck.
so, you are not really suggesting a love spell to bring an ex back...why on earth then, that there are so many other sites, even psychic lines offering to have this done? why cant we have an ex back if we feel so strongly for them. sure they don't feel as strong as the same as we do, that is why we are resorting to this kind of magic (to bring an x back). it is the same analogy as wanting to have a nice career or to having a nice job. why can't we ask for something that we really like, and that we are rest assured knowing, that no matter what, it can happen? sure, I have had doubts, but where else can I resort to? I need love, and yes, I want those moments when I was w my ex, and I want to relive those things, I just wish my ex is loyal and faithful and honest. so why cant we pursue that; we want to be w him, as we may have liked how things were, there maybe some minor/major issues, but they are just that, issues! and am sure,the love is still there.............
If anything try finding a way to boost your confidence or luck.
@AOSRF? oh, so you don't really recommend that kind of spell to get the ex back, but instead asked her to 'find a way to boost her confidence or luck". Whew, are you implying that wanting an ex back and resorting to this magic is sort of 'demeaning and only ppl w low self esteem are prone to this? I think it is the sneaky way to getting what u want without being obvious, and yes, some people are doing it, so what makes us the exception. I am also somebody who wants an ex back, I liked how we were. he had a change of heart. I did not like that. so am I being selfish? I have been w other ppl, and yet, I am not as happy as when I am w him. can someone blame me then for wanting to be with him? any one can say, he no longer share that same feeling! but do I care really? all I care about now is my sanity. I want him to love me and only me, just like how it was. and yes, I want him to be with me, to want me, to need me, to love me, to desire me and only me. call it how you may, but when desperation hits you, you only know what you know....it's what you are longing for, it is what the heart wants :)
I agree with almost all of what Ms.Murder said, except for the part where she claimed that Magick does not interfere with freewill. Wrong. VERY wrong, unfortunately. If only that were a true statement... Anyway, yes, Magick does in fact tamper with freewill, granted that is the intent of the Witch to do so. And even in the slightest, most inadvertent of ways as well, i.e. doing a spell to make someone happy. Obviously it alters the attitude of the subject, but not always for the best reasons. It could be that the subject needs to feel this way for whatever reason and by casting this happiness charm you alter their attitude and thus their whole current outlook, which is altering their freewill to feel unhappy at the time. See where I'm going with this? No? Oh well, on to your actual question! I would strongly advise you NOT to cast any spells to reobtain your lover solely for the reason being that of 1. freewill, and 2. he left your life for a reason and casting a spell to get him back would be trying to alter the natural order of things. It happened for a reason, so let it be as it is. You cannot change that. You WILL suffer cosmic, Karmic consequences if you go forth with this. Be very weary...
Look I am not saying it's being selfish at all. I am simply saying that love spells are not a way to go. I have seen people try that to solve their problems, some of which even succeeded, but all it ever did was give them more heartbreak. As for my talk about increasing confidence and luck, I didn't say a spell for it. I merely implied that the reason her practical approaches probably didn't work because while she does want her relationship to work, deep down she fears it's gonna fail. That kind of self doubt even if she didn't know it often interferes with anything from practical and mystical approaches and would probably be a factor in the spell backfiring.
