hey im jake, i need some help. me and my girlfriend broke up a little over a year ago but today i seen her and we talked a little bit but i want a spell to make her think of me or talk to me i just miss her and i know almost nothing about love spells o-o id be very greatfull if anyone will hep me
Re: need a love spell By: SueLearning Moderator / Adept
Post # 2 Jun 07, 2013
I suggest staying as far away from love spells as you can. Maybe you could try a friend spells after all you start out as friends before anything else right?
I think that is a great idea. Have her as a friend and if you were meant to be together you will be when the time is right. I absolutely know what it feels like to be in love with someone and cant have them. It is a very extreme feeling causing people to do extreme things. Mycrush knows how I feel and I know how he feels. We'll always be friends and hopefully one day more, but I refuse to do anything to "make" him wantto beme. I want him to be with me because he wants to be with me. It just wouldn't be the same if he didnt come to me on his own free will. Good luck!
Love spells are a powerful thing, and they can either turn out positive or negative. Human relationships are best built on a non-magic level. However, you could find a spell that can help you be more approachable or attractive to her. Normally those spells are simple and easy, and nothing complicated with any big backfire. This will help have her think of you more often and make it easier for her to approach you.
But the rest is up to you, and regular communication like the other posters mentioned. Just build up the relationship on a friendly non-magic or spell using level. Love spells can have enormous backfires, and can severely threaten relationships. Just some advice, that it would be better to not use love spells in this situation.
Best of luck to you!
Try a honey jar spell. It's a hoodoo bottle spell designed to sweeten a person or situation to you. Can be used for many different things, money, jobs, court cases, friendship, love etc. It is a long term spell, it's slow to start showing results, but when it does, the results are powerful :)
I would suggest not looking at this from a love spell perspective, but rather a situation with lots of left over energy in it. You should do a cleansing of yourself and send a cleansing energy out around the 'relationship' to help 'clean house' so to speak thus removing leftover, negative energy. Then focus a positive energy into it thus decreasing tensions and helping to warm you both to the idea. Then start talking to her (that way its really not magic bringing you together, but you cleaning house before moving in, or attempting to.) I suggest using the corresponding moon phases and colours when doing these things. I'm not gonna tell you how because it'll help you to learn if I dont. This should be rather helpful.
Don't take the easy route by using a love spell. You reap what you sow. Show her that you really love and care about her and work for it. People appreciate those who truly care about them.