I'm gonna try and keep it short. I emigrated to another country,
with my parents. I basically hate it and wish I could get back, something my parents don't want at all. I have no friends here, & the language is hard not to mention I have an accent, which I hate so much.. I just don't really know what to do, I'm really unhappy, sad and depressed and I wish I'd have an idea on how to fel better. Do you have any spell suggestions for.. anything that could help me?
Sometimes spells are not always the answer when you are looking for a solution to something. And accents are something to be different and unique! Maybe it's just me but I love hearing different types of accents from different countries. Don't try to loss your accent! It is what makes you! What I suggest trying out is going outside of wherever you are and just try to relax and mediate. If I'm depressed or frustrated with something I always find that it helps me to be alone somewhere so I can think of what to do and cool off. Also just practicing the basics of magick help me cause it gets you connected with yourself and feel good. Just do this and I can bet someone will come along and make friends with you. The key is to relax! I've known a lot of exchange students and most of their grades sometimes go down because of the fact its a different surrounding they are not used to and people they are not comfortable around. But most of all their home sick. What you need to try to do is connect with something that maybe reminds you of your homeland. It can be a certain plant, animal, or a person. This is more of psychology than magick that I'm saying but I hope it helps! Message me!
If you are depressed, I suggest making a lemon, honey, and St Johns Wort tea (can be purchased online or found in bulk herb shops) and meditation on being positive and curious about this new place you are in. Maybe look into the local lore and magic traditions to build a bond with this new place.
Also as a non magic related suggestion, maybe you could start a blog about living in this new country! I'm sure people would love to read it.
I've never been in your shoes but change can often lead to positive results in the end. I can definitely understand that learning a new language must be difficult but I've never been to another country in my life. Try to think of this as a new start and a adventure where your past can't hold you back as you make new friends. I'm sure your parents had good reasons for moving to this country and I'm also sure that as time passes you will come to love your new home. Magick isn't the answer and even if you were to attempt to return to your previous country/home this would involve infringing on your parents free will which would take you down a dark path. Try to make the best of a bad situation, which I'm sure will change for the better.
Well, if you want a magick suggestion, here you go. Try the st. Johns wort tea! That herb is brilliant for depression. Another thing would be using the law of attraction to attract good things into your life. Quick question, what language are you trying to learn? I might be able to help with that. :) I hope you can find something you enjoy where you live.
Thank you all for your replies. I dont think I will be able to get the herb. My pwrents arent really into all of this. Its a pity because I would love to try the tea. Also, I have to learn swedish. The problem is my pronounciation. I will start a new school very soon and Ive only been here for six months. Im just scwred of people laughing at me for my mistakes. It already happened once, you see. Not to mention, I miss my old life.
Swedish and other Nordic languages have Germanic origins. Most of the words are based on it. So try practicing your Swedish with a German accent. With that, you can ease into the true punctuation really quickly. :) Hope this helped!
you can meditate to relax your mind, also doing yoga to reduce stress and illnes, and also aromatherapy it can make you feel calm, relax and by massaging for body pain.
