Removal of negative force

I am living with a partner, although it hasn't felt that way for a long time. I'm miserable and in short being taken advantage of. He's manipulative, unstable, selfish and a cheat.

I know what need to happen, I want him out (my house, also owed a lot of money), anyway, I would love help from the universe for him to leave either on his own accord or as peacefully as possible, I don't feel the want of revenge or anything, if anything I feel sorry for him. But it's destroying me.

Cn anyone suggestion something? Maybe a waning spell or similar.

I actually hope to come home one day and see a note of him saying sorry, I've been a total asshole, his stuff gone and me at peace, but hey he's got it so easy and I, too nice to push, more so as I don't trust him enough to not go without a fight.

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My mother is kind of in the same situation. she wants to try to get rid of him and a negative demon that is in our attic. :/ but dont give up ok? just put your foot down. :)

Banishing spell, under spiritual spells, under spells.

Yes do a Banishing spell and consider a return to sender spell (send all his negativity back to him). Then again if your feeling adventurous you could bind him to his own evil. You would also benefit from working on yourself. At the moment you're feeling used and probably lacking confidence. You need to believe that you're strong, powerful, fabulous and independent. Perhaps you might consider undergoing a cleansing ritual and then using centering and meditation to regain some balance in your life.
Whatever you decide I wish you well. The sooner you remove the energy sucking waste of life from you space the better you will feel!

Have you looked at dealing with this problem from a mundane approach such as serving him with an eviction notice? If the house is in your name and you pay the mortgage or rent on it then the other person has very little in the way of legal standing to remain there if you want them out. I'd certainly look into that.

In fact, you could simply start by telling him/her that you want them out of the house by such and such a date and that if they have not left by then you will have them legally removed. But you still need to be sure to follow through, get your eviction paperwork in order and if they don't go, then you can go to the authorities and have them removed.

I do not think a banishing spell is good in this situation! You should talk to him kind and tell him that things are not going out as it supposed to come, so you do not feel that conection with him anymore! Give him time to leave like couple of days, and then if he doesn't want to leave, tell him that you want him gone! But you'll better have a friend around, maybe not in the same room, but at least near in case he reacts violent! But maybe that won't be necesarry! Also after he leaves, you should take away everything that reminds you of him and switch stuff around the house, believe, it helps! Buy a new sofa, or new things, small or big and try to make him go away! Also it would be good to avoid him at least for a time! Stand up for what you believe in, find your courage and build your life as you wanted to be! And if you do not want him to be in your life, then you'll have to do what you'll have to do!
Blessed be:)

Thank you for all the kind words.

The request to leave has been made, although they seem to be so arrogant, they justdont accept it. I'm polite and giving and they just lap it up.

I'd not be here if I hadn't asked them to leave. Nor that it's obvious to everyone that I want them gone including him. He's just getting away with it, so why should he change? I could rant all day about how he's nothing short of a narrisitst and oh so materialistic and unreasonably immature, but it's not my cross to bear, nor my responsibility, I would as selfish as it sounds, like my life back and to for once, finish something I want to do in life rather than have nothing but negative weight dragging me down.

I will look into the banishing spell, I'd like to think that the universe will show him his true colours

(hit post by accident, yeah iPads!)

Although I'm sure he will not learn from it and just blame someone else. It really is tragic, but I deserve better, I know that. I just don't get why people can be so mean to one another.

if you get some type of ball and have it in a glass container you can push the negitive into the ball only carry it by its glass tray if you use your bare hands the negitive will go back inside of you but putting all the negitive energy into the ball is hard if you have alot built up over time. holy water is also a good thing to use if you don't wanna put all ur negitive energy into the ball

Have you tried confronting him? Maybe you don't need to use a spell, prehaps he will leave willingly...