I'm new here. Recently I have had a (male) friend do me lots of emotional harm. We were romantically involved for 2 months, we had been friends for over 2 years prior. We were both in relationships when we became involved and he professed a deep love for me and I did the same.
After I told my partner I was going to pursue a relationship with him, his girlfriend found out (not in the most pleasant manner) that we had fallen in love. He spoke of us pursuing a relationship before and that we both ought to break up with our current partners. She forbade him to speak to me and they broke up.
For 2 months he did not communicate and said he needed time. I gave him space. After another month he told me he was seeing his girlfriend again. He never communicated his wishes clearly from the time she found things out so I was in the dark and hit a terrible stage. I even went to hospital.
His selfishness continues as he does not speak to me. I feel I lost a great friend but that he has not learnt. I would be cautious of casting a spell myself, and was given directions to here to see if an experienced witch/spell caster could steer me in the right direction.
I do not wish to punish him, but believe in karmic rules and wanted to seek some opinions/someone that could help out in a karmic spell.
You cannot give out karma, karma can only be portioned out by the cosmos [to quote The Simpsons lol] karma is the belief that good or bad the universe will give you what you deserve. This karmic punishment might not be justice enough to you, but if you believe in karma you need to put faith in the universe solving the problem. Perhaps you figure karmic justice would be this man getting his heart broke and winding up in the hospital as well. This is not how karma works. He could be suffering in other ways you cannot see.
I was in a similar situation as you many years ago, and I wanted him to hurt too because he seemed fine. Hard as it sounds, one day, you'll let go and move on. We still have one mutual friend, so every so often I hear about my ex, and he's not doing well. He probably never went through the same sadness as I did over the loss, but he has sufferend in many ways as a result of his actions. Karma rewards and punishes as necessary, not to satisfy another human.
I personally suggest working through your pain and becoming a stronger person because of it. [That's the best revenge] meditation and journaling are great for getting to your deep feelings. You could also look into mindfulness [it really brings peace to your life. At least what's I've found]
Should you still feel like he deserves to be cast upon for some justice, there are a number of small hexes you could try. Personally I wouldn't because you welcome negative energy into your space when you cast spells of this nature and that stuff can really weigh you down.
Yes I wouldn't want to cast anything negative, that is not how I want to introduce myself to spells anyway. I do wish we would continue to be friends. Despite how much hurt he has brought me I can't erase the feeling that we have a strong connection. I perhaps should tell the forces around me how much I appreciate his existence.
