Hi I'm looking to do a red skull candle on my ex gf. So I need some advice.
I have the red skull candle but. Should I put her name on the forehead or base of skull by the neck? Once or how many times? I'm going to make 4 holes on top to fill with oil. (Which one?) then should I write what I want her to think? Like "her name" call me. Or "you will call me" or "call Tim" (not my name) or should I write "think of me" "miss me" "remember us" "forgive me" and so on. Then I'll anoint the candle with oil base to wick and then (what powder should I use?) then light the candle with a match. I'm also going to place it on top of our picture and a petition paper (petition paper like for a honey jar?)
This spell sounds a lot more like a spell to control than anything and the fact that you don't seem to know what to do makes me nervous about your magickal knowledge.
Before casting you really need to know what you are doing and the dangers of it, you can't rely on others to do it all for you.
Magick should not be used to solve everything, try discussing it with her first before you try to force her to forgive you, if you need a spell for her to forgive you, then maybe she shouldn't.
I am not being hateful in anyway, it is simply the way the post was written and the lack of information we have on you.
You have the right idea here,you can write anywhere on the candle the heart would be best in this case,use which ever oils you think you need since you seen to know what you are doing but you are second guessing yourself,your doing good,finish the spell how ever it seems best to you then cast it,at next night during a time your victim is most likely asleep
I'm actually doing this to get her to talk to me. To open up communication and also being worked along a honey jar.
I got my red skull. For herbs I'm using rose petals and ginger and olive oil to dress the skull. Placing it on a mirror and placing four white candles dressed in the same herbs and oil as the skull.. I found a letter she wrote me and sealed with a kiss to make a link to her.
Yes,you got the knack,cast it and see how it goes
Now A key to Magick is to not dwell on the outcome or you can drain the energy of the spell,hence the sayings in the manner of cast it and forget it,also be productive try to do it yourself,send flowers
Things like that,go old school.
so I dressed two vigil candles. Used the same herbs and kinda just let them burn for awhile before I light all my other candles and, when I first lit them the flame was pretty big. Contained but big. Dancing and moving like crazy. Even how big the flame was it didn't do anything to the glass or even make it sooty. Now after an hour they are burning at a nice controlled flame. Completely clean and no markings on the glass