last thing I want to believe but...mostly all my life bad luck has just been there like being broke or our utilities getting shut off or us getting kicked out of the last 2 soon to be 3 places we've lived like if there was a problem in our house it would be fixed by us not like we would destroy the houses because we didn't like i said cursed is the last thing I want to think and this is not the only aspect of my life this has affected I'm kind of beside myself can anyone offer advice?
life is full of ups and downs so sometimes you have a long down period, other times it's a long up. last year was the worst i've had in a long time, i wasn't cursed, just life. and sometimes you will stagnate and the universe/gods will try and force you to move on. so perhaps if you sit down and look at the big picture of your life you might have an 'aha' moment and find an opportunity.
even if you weren't cursed it's a good idea to cleanse and protect yourself and your home on a regular basis to make sure no negative energy builds up [also, when you move into a new place it's a good idea to clean away any energy left behind from the old owners] there's many ways to cleanse and protect so try looking up a few methods and do what works best for you. a simple one is tu burn sage and waft the smoke throughout your house to cleanse away negative energy. [sprinkling sea salt water works too] just be sure to feel the positive energy and focus on your desired intent of cleaning away negative energy [or curse in this case] for yourself you can soak in a sea salt bath and let the water wash away any negative energy [i use a sea salt scrub and charge it with energy so it cleanses as well as exfoliates] it takes practice to start feeling energy, but you should feel lighter, or at least calmer after cleansing.
for a protection spell, again, there's several things you can do so research and find the best one for you. a simple one is to hang a protection symbol over the doors, or say a chant. same with yourself, you could wear a protection symbol, or say a protection chant. you can also ground negative energy, charge positive energy, and shield yourself daily to help keep negative energy away.
after you've done the cleansing and protection, just go about your life confident it worked and it's a new day. dwelling on every little bump will bring negative energy and you could unknowingly curse yourself. over time negative energy does build up so i suggest getting into a cleansing habit. personally i cleanse/protect my home once [sometimes twice] a year and cleanse/protect myself at least once a month [especially after stressful days it's a good idea to cleanse away any energy] good luck to you.
You are not cursed,Missjersy. You are sinking into abject poverty. I have been there! I know what it is like. Your problem is a financial one. The answer? Get rid of everything you do not need! And you will find a lot!