Hello kind members ! I am in a very miserable mental condition due to my ex boyfriend being unfaithful and very hurtful to me instead of apologising for giving me false hopes. Its been 8 months since he broke up, but the hurtful memories just wont leave my head, it has made me loose weight, get constant burning sensations in my head, feel depressed and loose
hopes for the future and blocked every positive thought that i try to generate. Is there any way i can get rid of the pain and regret of that 1 day or atleast curse him to seek forgiveness which i dont need to be honest. I just need a miracle or spell to let his hurtful behavior to be erased from my mind. I would greatly appreciate any help.
Thank You
Hello there! I'm so sorry about your bad times. You can try a full moon spell maybe, one to bring positivity and/or healing. Even sit under the moon if you like. You get buy some Sage and burn it around your home, it will cleanse it and take away the negativity, which will probably help you yourself heal. If your not sleeping try a bath with some lavender, rose petals or put lavender under your pillow. I hope this helps and I hope you feel better!
There is no sudden magical miracle to cure this ailment. What you need is time. Time heals all wounds, no matter how long it takes. As Katahdin suggested, do go to therapy and talk to counseler to help.
I suggested getting help from a mental health therapy and counseling and also think positive and not let than man keep you down he is ungrateful for whatever he did to you. And if you get seriously more depressed contact a doctor to get help
To fill a void left by this person and to be physically cheated on as well as being torn down verbally is very hard. There is on magic quick fix to replace the loss or the hurt you feel. Don't bury it. Don't cover it with extra work. Don't seek revenge. This is something you need to sit and talk about to a trusted person or a therapist. Time will heal all wounds but an open wound never heals. A strong friend base will fill some of this void and make it a little more bearable. Don't underestimate the power of momma's shoulder. Tears are good in this situation. Also remember that you have already started to move on by posting this. Talk to someone about this. It needs to be out. Don't bottle it up.
"Is there any way i can get rid of the pain and regret of that 1 day". What one day? What is it that you regret?
"curse him to seek forgiveness which i dont need to be honest"
Really? For one, cursing does not generate forgiveness.
Seems you have more to the story. And I am not qualified as professional therapist, but I am a good listener. Having physical symptoms over this makes me believe that you need help, maybe even medication, which means going to a doctor. Please do this, so you can be helped. It's up to you, and what you do, to help yourself get better. My hope is that you get better soon. You have a wonderful life to live ahead of you.
You need to learn to let go. You need to forgive, or whatever if not forgive, to get past this yourself.
It is not his fault you can't get past this. It is yours. Sure: He was unfaithful and he broke up with you. But what you do with your life after that is yours, not his, to determine.
