Hello, I need help with a spell.
I would ask someone to cast it for me but I feel it's better to do it myself, I've got ten years of experience and I really want to keep it personal. you see I have a close relationship with someone for the LONGEST time, we speak everyday and have fun together but lately they've been under stress with work and family(parents) and an annoying ex who keeps on pestering them so they've been distant and cold with me, within the almost four years we've been together they've never been like this.
it's been like this for a month now and things were going really good this winter and we were so insync together so I'm very distressed by this, it's like a switch just went off. can someone please give me a spell that could help us? something to bring back the affectionate feelings and love in our relationship, I am so tired of how distant they've been acting and I don't want them to drift away; I want to try and bring back the love we share
ps: before you ask yes I've tried talking to them to smooth things out and it didn't seem to help ( only a little bit, they said they were sorry but nothing changed because they're still upset because they're stressed ) but I want to really help their energies so we can go back to our affectionate and lovey dovey state again, I don't want work/stress to bring us apart so if anyone can offer me some spell help I'd be so grateful~~
Have you tried a honey jar? They're more effective, but work slowly. They are also not as dangerous as a love spell (even I'm sure that's not what you're asking), but a bney jar will sweeten them up a bit, you can add lavander petals or ash in it for stress. Lavander is execellent for stress, it also helps depression. If you don't want to do a honey jar, make this person a oil charm that difuses oil, use lavander and it will help calm them when they are under stress.
thank you so much! I forgot how helpful honey jars are for bringing in those sweet love vibes, I don't really need a love spell; we're very much close together naturally ( after four years you just kinda have a connection ^^'' but sometimes life gets rough ;; ) I just want to bring back the affection and love we share and ease the stress they're going through~~ thank you again!!~~
Shadowcasts I love what you have suggested I was going to suggest using a pink candle a purple lavender scented candle and a small charm made with honey and a bottle neckless charm. Like a letter Ina bottle but. With honey that has been around a pink candle and a lavender candle for at least 24 hours before putting the charm on your door. Honey is really good with this. And pink helps with friendship so I thought that would also help.
Another suggestion would be a spell to ask for healing of the heart and/or guidance through stress for the person. But of course it is advisable to ask him/her for permission first as it will help the spell do its work. (receptivity of the recipient, and all that ^_^)
Incorporating some symbols of confidence and empowerment into the earlier suggestions would definitely not go amiss. I have found that the most effective way of helping another person through tough or challenging times is to support and empower them to tap into their own strengths.
I would suggest including a small carving or image of a sword, eagle talon, or bear claw for empowerment. Also an image or rune representing insight/looking below the surface, like an eye of horus, eagle/hawk eye, or high priestess tarot card.
