Be as respectful as you can! She is amazing! Give a sacrifice a day. (I give a cup of water lol) and expect her to push you to your limits.(both good and bad) and she is capable of more than healing.
Im wanting to work with her for the spiritual healing right now. And I understand respect is key when dealing with her and other demons/ goddesses. Thank you for the advice my friend.
If you haven't already I would research as much as you can, on many different sources. Maybe ask around people who have worked with her, to get a sense on what your dealing with. Respected normally comes as a given when working with anything, be that person in living or one who has crossed over.
You can always give her an offering to her likening before working with her. I'd take your time with this. Unless she's a spirt who has already step up and wished to work with you. Try not to get your hopes up if you want to work with her and she doesn't end up working with you, but walking away.
agree, research her as best you can. you should also set up an altar dedicated to her if you wish to work with her and build a relationship. from what i know about Lilith she is one of the "darker" Goddesses, and as someone who works with a few "dark" Goddesses, i can tell you from experience they're stern, not evil. be respectful, and do not argue with them [again, i know from experience lol, not fun] if i were you i would research her and life to her standard, Lilith was one of the first "strong, independent woman" so ask yourself before you do something how would she react.
there's a youtuber i loved watching [she doesn't make videos as much anymore] she works with The Morrigan, and she used the example if she's in the park and a kid is throwing a ball towards where she's sitting, she would calmly say "it is dangerous, please be careful with your game, because other people can get hit with the ball." if the kid ignores her and kicks the ball and it hits her or whomever she's sitting with, she would take the ball away and demand an apology before returning it to the kid. if it happens a third time, she would tell the parent what had happened and leave with the ball. the child had 3 warnings they ignored, and needs to be taught a lesson. [granted, some people might find that mean, but it is how her deity would react. if it was someone like Isis or Percephoni, she would walk away or give the child more toys to play with because "kids will be kids"] so while i wouldn't commit a crime, i would stop and ask yourself "how would Lilith act in this situation?"
I would love to start to work with her i really dont know much of where to start tho.... When i go to research her everything is completely different if you would I love some guidance and a little help