Hi guys, I have a presence in my life in the form of an over domineering perverted sense of humor family member. I have put it off for so long but now I am ready to seek help. This person is extremely toxic and finds numerous ways to cross my boundaries. She is a parent figure who is a dark scorpion. Very egoic and immature and used emotion to get her way.
I would describe her as a narcissist but I understand sometimes it's hard to classify someone with that label especially if not backed up by a professional mental psychiatrist but with that I admit we cannot make her seek help, however I am way past my last straw and am looking for spells in particular to help her dislodge her from my energy field permanently. I came in as the stereotypical enemy of her sign. Fire and Water seldom mix, sometimes they find ways to coexist.. but I cannot coexist with someone who smiles at my pain and misfortune.
She is extremely perverted and corrupt, she is still human, still my morhr and I'm the one who has felt sorry for her over and over until I realized she does not care about anyone but herself. She proceeds to promise to stop hurting me and then continues to do so. I have seen her smile and laugh in my face when I'm mad before. I have so much I could say. I have some background in energy work. I know before anything it would be wise to cleanse and set protective circle, do a cord cutting ritual and then perhaps a banishing with her, and I have not done those things so far, but what I have done is continually sage myself and put up protecyube wards while visualizing and announcing the energy and chords 5o be cut on all levels and be sent back so I guess I actually have triwd but what I meant is I haven't done candle spellwork or something that I consider concrete. I consider candle work serious 'walk the walk' type of practice but I have been serious with my other methods as well. I am an empath and over the last year have been focused on fortifying myself and pushing back energetic intrusion that I feel enter my body, I know it is my mother's doing because I will send them back and immediately she'll exclaim the same area of herself is hurting while she's in the other room and she has no idea why. (I think she does on some level)
I'm not over reacting.. I've cleansed the back of my neck area and stated all negative energies be dislodged from me when I was showering once and she was out. The day she came home she ezclaimed the back of her neck was hurting badly and she didn't know why.. I'm aware what the back of the neck represents and furthermore I felt foreign energy try to enter the back of my neck after I cleansed it and was sitting on my bed, I sensed it but remained CA knowing I done a cleansing and right after is when she announced her neck hurt. My mom js egoic and believes God is the only way. She does habe background getting her cards read and stuff, I believe she is powerful through her element of water and emotion to just know things even if she states otherwise. Or she could be a religious witch who does her stuff in secret. Jesus is hanging all over the wall, thing is she's Catholic and she collects Christian stuff... Even though she exclaims she isn't Christian.. aounding familiar?
Please help and give me your best tips and spells if you know of a situation where you had to use something like this.
I do not want a hex or curse just something that's powerful enough to banish her domineering narcissistic energy.
This situation likely isn't something that magic can fix on its own, much less a single spell. It sounds like a classic case of an abusive relationship, and unfortunately the only real way to end that is to cut the abuser out of one's life as much as possible. Magic can help with that, but not if you're going to continue living together.
You could try a banishing to see what happens, but I don't believe doing so would do much if you're living together. The point of a banishing is to remove something or someone from your life, and continuing to live with someone runs contrary to a banishing. A binding might be more appropriate, but even that isn't guaranteed to work.
You mentioned that you've cleansed and warded yourself. This is good, but it's important to cleanse your environment as well, especially before setting up a ward. Ideally the whole house should be cleansed while she's away, otherwise the energy you're warding against is still going to be in the area and be trapped inside your ward. At the very least, cleanse and ward your personal space such as your bedroom before setting up any personal wards. Since it sounds like the assault on your wards is constant, they're going to require constant maintenance unless you program them to feed off of the negative energy and replenish themselves or anchor them to a physical object. Pay extra attention to places where you think she's trying to attach to you energetically.
All that being said, a big part of this is how you react to what she says and does. If her words and actions push your buttons, that's not necessarily something a ward can fix. This is mostly a psychological situation.
