Come back/love spell help

I apologize if this isn't the right place to post this, forum type sites confuse me.

I'm still somewhat new to all of this, but I think I have the general gists down, I've been researching a bunch and I've done a few small spells with the limited resources I have, but I need some sort of a come back spell. It's not obsessive or any bad stuff like that, but I don't think I should bother typing the entire story.

I searched a while for spells of this sort I could try, but a lot of it was full of contradicting information or not what I was looking for, so I thought I'd check and see if I could ask a forum full of this kind of stuff. I don't think I should tackle this kind of thing with the limited resources I have, or craft my own spell, because based on what I know and the stuff I've researched, this kind of stuff can be pretty heavy.

If anyone has any resources for this specific subject, be it recommendations for materials or spell recommendations or anything really, please let me know! I tried the search function, but all I found was just full of people begging and the usual "you shouldn't do that with those intentions" type stuff.

Thank you!

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I do not normally recommend trying any kind of love spell since it normally boils down to mind control as it would alter the targets normal will and freedom of choice. However, there are spells that do not really do this but just makes you seem more appealing and the rest of the efforts are based on you wither or not you are successful in getting the person to be interested with you.

Depending on what the situation is would determind the need for any spell at all or even the kind of love spell you really need. If for example you were dating the person but things didn't turn out well for the relationship then it is better to figure out what went wrong and how you can improve yourself. The best thing I can do to help you is to try to understand the situation and give advice on how you should handle it. I could also try to do a tarot reading on the future you and the target of your spell have together which might show you do not need a love spell.

I do wish the best of luck for you and hope you find something that can help you.

Yes, I did consider trying some of those self improvement spells and chances are I probably will, but they aren't necessarily what I'm looking for. I just need a spell to do, as I feel constructing my own of this subject may be pushing it. Have you any resources? Thank you.

I would add my own caution to Nash's response and say that this is one of those times when I would recommend against using magic. While I don't have any first hand experience with love spells, I've read enough to know that targeting someone specific with a love spell without their consent is generally a bad idea for multiple reasons. Free will aside, the target may be aware that a spell was cast on them on a subconscious level, which has a chance of causing them to feel hostile toward you without knowing exactly why. It's also possible that they may have protections from deities or guides, and your spell could end up backfiring. Basically, things could end up being worse than they ar now.

If magic must be used, you may wish to instead cast a general love spell to attract love into your life. The person you want to get back together with may decide to come back, or you may find someone different who may be more compatible. A honey jar spell might be an option as well if you simply want to try to sweeten things between you and the target, as it wouldn't be a binding like a targeted love spell would be.

I think in this situation the key words that speak to me the most are 'come back' spell. Though, it doesn't give enough information for a specific direction to go in. Obviously it means you had a relationship of some sort, and you either have lost it, or you are fearing that you will lose it. Either way you are experiencing a change that you don't like and/or regret.

The trouble in giving advice for this is that there are many contexts to work with here, and context greatly matters as small details can make the difference between focusing on personal change, inviting healing, sweetening/softening thoughts, and the possibility that the lesson is to know when to let go.

So, to put itbluntly, an honest accounting would be required for any direct help to have any relevant meaning. The key to finding a solution is to understand the problem. ... Most often I find the problem at the root of a situation is the direct route to how to fix it.

Did your partner and you have a fight, and he/she left? Examine what the fight was about, dig into where it originates from, and reflect on your contributions to the issue. Solutions range between apology, creating open communication and actually conversing about what the problem is in a -constructive- way, or realizing a cause might be enduring toxic and letting it go.

Did your partner cheat on you or do something similarly egregiously unfaithful to break your trust? Trust broken is never repaired, just as faithful ess never existed. Drop the relationship like a dirty shirt and leave it behind. Every other action I have ever witnessed has ended in resentment and toxicity. ...If you were the unfaithful party, examine it as a sign of important things clearly missing from the relationship. You either were missing something you needed from someone else, or you just plain didn't take the relationship seriously, and likely won't later. Let it go, choices and consequences. Learn from it.

If you are friends who are drifting apart, and/or your friend is moving away or otherwise you are encountering emotional or physical distance growing between you, introspection and communication are in order. Bit first realize that people will always come and go in life. Sometimes come back again. That's life being as it is. Even with the ideas of soul partners, soul contracts, and other new-agey concepts of Karma and cooperative growth, people come together for a purpose. Then, that purpose fulfilled, they go apart again to be drawn to the next experience or lesson. You meet a teacher to educate you in grade-school math. You meet a different teacher for band class. They don't remain with you for the rest of your life though. They teach you what you are meant to learn, then you move on. New grade, new teachers, new classroom of people. Life is not so very different.

But just like in school, you -can- choose to keep in tough as old classmates go on to different classes or schools. You can still spend time together, just differently. They enter into a different circle- a different niche or clique. From schoolmates to weekend chums. From chess-club (or fortnite clan) friends to penpals. Same people, new relationship. Nothing lost, just different now.

I will tell a story, since I am sure you might still think it is the only way or even a good idea because what bad could happen.

When my father was young he fell in love with a woman. He was still pretty young and a bit inexperienced when it comes to life. She didn't return the same feelings he had and he didn't know what to do. So he used his studies and practice to cast a love spell on her. Despite all odds and the chance of it failing, it worked. She started to warm up to my father and return his feelings. He and her decided to get married almost right away, I guess my father knew it is better to lock her in with marriage than to wait it out to be sure. Once they got married they had nearly a full year of being in love. Everything took a turn when the spell worn off. It was like her personality changed very suddenly and the warm feelings she always seemed to return stopped with only bitterness and disdain towards my father. In the end they became divorced. This was a lesson my father took in well as he saw the spell only created an illusion instead of real feelings and emotions being shared. Real love cannot be made with such tricks so he stayed away from those things and shared this story with his kids when they decided to practice these arts.

If you do decide to ignore our advice and use a spell regardless then just try to remember that once that spell fades away like all things in life, the pain will come back and may be even worse than it once was. Sometimes even if we have the power to change things to our liking, it is always better to let the natural course of things to happen. I certainly hope you can get past whatever struggles you are dealing with, truly, I wish you well.

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Merry Meet, trust you are well.

So yes, i can relate to what point you trying to get across, you seeking a simple basic spell with the thrills however without the frills, something simple taking into consideration you are new to this and practising with limited resources.
So in my opinion, looking for a spell would seem to be secondary to your intention, meaning your intention should be your first priority and then spell casting, I hate to sound like one of many when i say tbis, but intension first, then spellcasting.
So again, in my personal opinion, take a step back, take a breather, and ask yourself to explain to you, your intention and possibly see if you can picture the end result, will it be a favourable result for you only, or would it be favourable for both parties concerned, your intention will always paint a true picture of the end result of your spell.

Again, my personal opinion.

Blessed Be

I would look into attraction spells. If the person has inclinations towards you, an attraction spell would give them a push without the worry of a price (ie. karma, deities, other consequences, etc. Attraction pulls but doesn't force).

You know the result you want, use that as your intention.

Attraction spells tend to be more accessible to novice practitioners, which is also why I would recommend starting there. There are many different types (candles, burning, lipstick, incense, potions, jars, spellwork, etc), you're bound to find something in your comfort level, style, and ability.

Just write your wish on a bayleaf and burn it in a container. Then, throw the ashes of the bayleaf into the air so it's released into the Universe.

Research the runes and find the proper love rune and with a marker write it on a bayleaf along with your wish.

You can do whatever you desire, I just don't suggest love spells as they can backfire hard and if you're not comfortable in being alone then you won't be comfortable in a relationship aswell. Work on yourself, become the best version of you and try to find love naturally.

That's my advice. Pick and choose.