Sweet Jar Candle

First you are going to write your name on the piece of paper. Write it so it is straight across the paper horizontally, and keep writing it until you can't fit your name anymore. Now turn the paper 90 degrees so the point is facing you. Write the full name of the person you want to "sweeten" across the paper starting at the top, and working your way down, so their name crosses yours. (This is called "crossing"). Take the two hairs (if you can't get a hair, don't worry about it, the spell will just be slightly less effective, and take longer) and tie them together.

Take the paper you have written on, and create an envelop (use this method: http://www.expertvillage.com/video/5939_easy-origami-envelope.htm but stop after you put the corners into the triangles). Try to keep the written part on the inside of the envelope. Now put the hairs, as well as the herbs, into the envelope.

 Open the jar and fill it full with whichever sweet syrup you are using. In order to make room for the envelope, take a large spoonful of the syrup and concentrate on it while chanting: "As I eat this sweet, may you and I meet. And may I be as sweet to you as sweet as this syrup is true. As I eat this syrup divine, may your eyes turn to mine. (Persons name) may you find me sweet, as this syrup is to me". Then eat the syrup. If you need to eat another spoonful to make room for the envelope, then repeat the process.

Put the envelope into the jar and close it tightly. Light the candle and place it on the jar lid. Do this every day that corresponds to your desire (Friday for love, Monday for family, Thursday for legal matters, etc), until your goal is met. If you need to use a new candle, just put it on top of the already melted wax.

When your goal is achieved, keep the jar in a safe, dark place, to keep the sweetness going.