I wrote about love spells quite some time ago and I believe it is time once again to write this once more to cover more ground.
We all want to be loved and have someone we desire. We get that feeling of butterflies in our stomach towards that one person. But what can you do? Ask them out? Take them on a date? Please to their interest? Of course all of that is out of the question, but one thing isn't. And that one thing is Love Spells! With such a power to attract your desired person to you, you don't have to go out of your way to show your love. Just cast the spell or make the potion and all of your dreams to that one person will come true. Also, what can go wrong with a simple love spell?
Plenty can go wrong. First of all, what is a love spell? White magick? Gray magick? Or Black? Some people believe it is white because you are "Showing that person their real feelings towards you." Gray because you are helping yourself with your wants with the spell. And finally black because you are taking away that persons free will. Yes that can be a mind breaking thought. Magick cannot be all of the colors at once, it just does not make sense what so ever. (Yes magick can sometimes be a mixture of both, like ying and yang. But ying and yang is having an equal force of good and evil, when white overpowers black it is white magick. If both are equal the colors mix into gray. That is what I have learn.).
But you have to remember something, a love spell is taking away the persons free will. What if someone cast a love spell on you when you have no interest towards that person. And even worse, when you love someone else and is in a relationship with them or trying to get into one? You would be going against your will to please someone else. Black magick is overpowering the white so therefore it would be more of a curse. Now before you go casting a love spell towards that person, try to fit yourself in their shoes.
Going to cast a spell on an ex to bring them back? That might be leaning towards white than black right? Well it all depends. Has that person got themselves into another relationship? What caused the break up? Did they changed their desired sex? Bring back an ex sounds nice, but maybe you should move on. It would be easier and safer to bring them back with your feelings and treating them right. If they don't love you anymore than what would be the point in breaking their will for your own sake? That isn't love, that is selfish.
Just remember, you can always get that person by other means. Showing them around the park. Taking them out for dinner. Watching a movie together. Being there for that person in their time of need. Is that really so hard for you to do? If so, than you want something else than just the feeling of love.
You don't care about removing their free will, what makes them who they are, only that you get them in your control? Are you listening to yourself here? You are not in love of them but the idea of being in love.
If you use a love spell on them it would turn out very wrong. That person treat you horribly because, they just don't like you. It doesn't make since just to force them to love you. Like I said it would turn out very wrong leaving you very injured. What if someone took your free will and you aren't who you are anymore? You wouldn't like that would you, especially if you don't like that person. You'll find someone who does love you, but don't immediately think magic will solve your problems. It could make things worse. Also, many people have told you this already, so take advice from them, there's stilla chance for you to do something unnecessary
I think if someone hurts you, you don't need them in your life. Why would you want to be with someone who treats you badly? I say get over it and move on. I know that can be difficult, but I also know you'll be happier once you have. There's plenty of spells that will attract someone who is good for you, not the specific person you think you want, but the person who is right for you, even if it's only temporary.
I'm happily married in my 30s, but I traveled a road of heartache to get here. That's how I think of it, we all travel a road where our soul mate is at the end. All the bad relationships and crushes we run into along the way teach us lessons we need to be ready to have a lasting, loving, healthy relationship when we meet our soul mate.
Elliiiooot, I am telling you a forcefull love spell isn't the solution! If you truly love someone, you wouldn't want to take away their free will do you hear yourself talking?
I don't reccomend spells that force someone to love you, I think a spell to attract love to you is most moral, you can do one while concentrating on the person you wish to attract though. I don't feel that will do any harm. I reccomend this one
http://www.spellsofmagic.com/spells/luck_spells/wish_spells/1706/page.html
Yep, a spell that could get you into a good situation for bringing her/him back would be good. Otherwise go ahead and take away freewill and see your life turn to hell. :)
