Heal a friendship.

So recently I've had a falling out with one of my best friends. I have tried to resolve things on my own, but he refuses to talk to me. The main thing that caused the feud was he was constantly putting himself first and not taking others feeling into consideration, mainly his girlfriend, and I tried to make him see reason, but he would hear none of it and now won't talk to me.

Is there an effective spell I can use to remove this negativity and resolve this conflict? Also can anyone suggest a spell to help him be less selfish and more considerate of others? It's ruined all his past relationships, and I don't want to see him making the same mistake and getting hurt. I want to help him.

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Sorry to say this, but unless this friend come down off his high horse his life will never change. I know this because I was once like your friend. But I learned from my own mistake. I feel more sorry for the people he will hurt around. I can give you a spell for this but there one thing you got to known. If you bend someone free Will It could destory you. It will come back to you three time over.If you still want to do this message me if you can.

This would be very helpful, thank you. I am worried about him hurting others as well as him being hurt himself. I'm very good friends with his girlfriend, so I know how much it upsets her, when he won't go to a family event because he "doesn't like going out" or to her art shows, simply because it's "not his thing". He should be there to support her or even just because it would mean a lot to her, but no, it's always what he wants and his feelings. I don't like seeing how much these things upset her, all because he can't be considerate of others. And it's not the first girlfriend I've had to console, either.

For your friendship a honey jar spell should work. For his putting himself first you can try an amulate charged with the desire to be more compassionate and understanding. Not everyone believes in three fold

How would I go about charging an amulet? Would it be the same as charging candles? And would he need to be wearing the amulet or at least keep it close to him?

Well it would be best if he wore it not you. Hold it in your hand and pour your intent into it. Visualize the change taking place within him

Thank you for the help. Will definitely try this. Would be a good peace offering when we resolve things :)

By accepting the charm he will be accepting the magic within in. Just something to keep in mind. Happy to be of some use :]

That's good to know. Let's hope he accepts it and that it works on him. Will make him a much better person :)