Hi y'all! I'm just here today looking for ways to attract some more friends and general relationships using the law of attraction and/or manesfestion. My general questions are:
-Can you give off a certain aura to make people more prone to talk to you/want to be friends with you
-is it possible to attract/manifest a person to be friends with you Ex: I will attract//manifest Jane to be my friend
-What about bring a romantic relationship? is it possible to attract one of those?
-What are methods to generally attract attract things to you?
-Can you give off a certain aura to make people more prone to talk to you/want to be friends with you
Yes. There is a quote which can be used outside of its intended context here: "Be the change you want to see in the world," of course said by Mahatma Gandhi.
To shoehorn it into context, I mean it as this: Magic is change, and sometimes the change has to be external and deliberate. There are experiments based in acting like someone else, to contrast it with who you are -- again, a route to accomplishing the maxim, "Know they self."
Of course, that does not mean to be fake. It can be enlightening to be a completely different person for a while, but if you want to project a vibe of getting friends, then you need to be a friend, yourself. That is, being outgoing, putting yourself into social situations, and the like. You would be surprised how easily this can work.
Of course, it will not cure a social anxiety or change introversion. But it can put you 'out there' to meet people.
-is it possible to attract/manifest a person to be friends with you Ex: I will attract//manifest Jane to be my friend
Yes.
-What about bring a romantic relationship? is it possible to attract one of those?
It is possible. But to have a relationship, you must first meet people.
Hey! I'm gonna answer some of your questions with a bit of my personal experience, and my own opinion.
First of all, as long as you aren't tampering with free will I think magic like this is great, it generally helps improve and create healthy relationships in life.
Second, yeah you can give off a certain energy or aura that will affect how people will interact with you, certain energies attarct people, I'm sure everyone has noticed some people are generally more friendly and that makes you want to be around them more, versus when someone is putting out a negative energy taht basically reads "leave me alone." If that's something you wanna work on I think that's great! I use crystals personally just to improve my mood, attract good things to me, etc.
Third, you can attract friendships/romantic interests. How you do that is up to you, I'd go for maybe a personal type spell. But if life just doesn't want that friendship to work, or you're really just not compatible it's not going to work. I spent a lot of time trying to attract a romantic interest, but it never worked, and I'd ask my tarot cards over an dover if someone was going to come, or if it was working, and they would always tell me that it's more important to think of myself and focus on my own goals instead. It's best to take the hint if it's not working and just work on being yourself, which in my experience will also help you attract new relationships.
I don't know much about the law of attraction, but I hope this helps! Magic is good for helping you in life with these things, and give you confidence boosts.But it's always good to remember it's you who has to put in the effort and to not get carried away. Good luck!
Thank you! This shouldn't be a problem at all! I'm not the type with social anxiety or a loner, but I'd just like to meet more people. My friend group is composed of 4 people including myself. I talk to other people, I'm not not friends with them, Again, Thank you for your reply prsona!
Thank you Claire! I'm pretty compatible with this, and thank you for sharing your knowledge. If I may ask, how does one actually use crystals to raise your vibration? I always hear YouTube witches recommending crystals. But I've never actually done it, or heard how to. If you could clarify that for me, It would be great! Thanks
I don't think there's really a correct way to use crystals (other than being safe with cleansing and like, not weakening them by leaving them in the sun), it really depends on the person.
I think the only problem for most people with crystals is not being abel t care for them, or just teh cost. Otherwise I wouldn't worry about using them so much.
You can meditate with crystals, sleep with them close to you, wear them, anything like that. Just look into their meanings and apply them to how you feel/the situation you're in. You can also use them to amplify spells, or use them as a core component in spells. A lot of people also use crystal grids.
For example when I'm out and need some confidence and a tiny extra security I will bring some tigers eye in my pocket, I use amethst to help me sleep, hematite is suppose to help with headaches, etc.
Not much else I can tell you that you can't find on this site, the internet in general, and if you feel like it you can buy books on cystals.
You should go out and talk to people and get to know them and see what goes from their and if this doesn't work you could try a
friendship spell on them, note this will only better increase your chances of friendship and you half to put in the efforts as well cause magic will not create friendships only help aid the chances of such friendships
