Hi everybody, i am new here and I will appreciate any and every comment.
Last Sunday I casted a love spell, it was very sloppily done, two red candles, burned a piece of paper with the name of the person on one candle and said two lines (no invocation of any sort). It was white magick.
I didn't even let the candles burn all the way through, meditated on it 5 minutes and i put them out. I'm fairly sure this spell didn't do anything.
Friday I took advantage of the full moon and did a honey jar spell. This time i did it extremely throughly, from the preparation of the spell to the ritual itself, only thing is that i didn't have their hair, so i wrapped my hair around their photo (a photo of himself that he had sent to me). The cherry on top, is that i ended the honey jar with a binding (string around the jar) ending with "in harmony of our own free will, harming none)
I felt GREAT and started seeing signs literally as soon as i left my room.
Last night I had some bad dreams, but i think mostly coming up from the extensive meditation work I've been doing to get the honey jar going.
Now, this morning I got in a car accident. I am fine. My car is destroyed.
The thing is, I was spaced out all morning, and the reason i got in the car accident was because I wasn't paying attention.
As I said, I am spaced out, ungrounded (i could barely order coffee this morning).
Regardless, I am no a bit worried that the spells and my accident are related.
What should I do? Please, please, I know love spells are a touchy subject, and we all have our opinions about them. I would never invoke not positive energies, and these spells were pretty mild.
Thanks anyone who will join the conversation.
Blessed be.
Honestly it depends on the spell. Majority of love spells come under grey magick, even if you intend to practise white magick.
I doubt it was the spell itself, it's probably because you did 2 spells relatively close together and weren't sufficiently grounded for them. You used all your energy doing them and so you weren't able to concentrate on driving and mundane things.
Do you have any forms of protection in place? Did you perform the spells within a magick circle?
It might be that you're lacking in protection.
I suggest you work on grounding more before and after spells, and look into ways to protect yourself. Protecting yourself in general can be as simple as exercising regularly and eating a balanced diet by the way.
