I am new and need help with a spell, I want to bring my ex husband back. I recently found out from my son that his new wife had cast a spell to break up our marriage of 20 years. I want to be careful because I don't want there to be anymore damage to anyone else.
2. If she did cast a spell, it wouldn't work unless there was some type of opening for the spell to work, so if you manage to get him back there will be work to heal what was broken before the spell was cast on him.
3. You will hurt someone. The new wife, your husband who loves her [because if they got married she either cast multiple spells regularly or he fell in love with her] if they have any kids, or anyone in their new life together. You need to accept that someone will get hurt, even if you're simply undoing a spell.
I have a break up candle spell I uploaded, go to my history and scroll down. Depending on the spell she used you might need more [stronger love spell, cleansing, protection] not only to get him back but to protect him once he's return. Of course you would be forcing him to walk out on his marriage, just as she forced him to walk out on yours. If he does you will need to rebuild your relationship, and even then it's no guarantee it will be 'back to normal'. Personally without 100% proof I would try to heal and move on. Best of luck to you, just be careful what you wish for.
I think either way healing might be better. I know it's both hard to hear and hard to do but using magic to influence the heart in my opinion is wrong no matter who did it first. If you use magic will you ever really know if that love is "true?". If his wife now did magic she must live with that question, call it a curse if you will. If you use magic you also will have the same problem. Better to let it be, heal. The Universe has its own magic so if you are met to be, you will. But don't wait because you will never know. This is just my advice. Good luck in whatever you choose.
My son said his father told him she practiced magic and he began searching the house and found a break up spell.
We had been in marriage counceling at the time, making progress. He had told our son that things were getting better, 1 month later he filed for divorce and 6 months after it was final he married her. They have no children and his family our worried about him because they feel he is acting irrational.
Oh my, first of all my sympathies to you. Divorce and all that is tough and it totally sucks. I would advise to give yourself some time, 3 months min., to clear your head and decide if its still something you want. If you cast while you're emotional and raw with those types of feelings (I know I had those types of feelings when I got divorced) it can affect your casting. The craziness that surrounds divorce can make it hard to focus intent and can give you a varying range of results.
Maybe it's different for each person, but I'm just speaking from my personal experience.
