Unloving him

Can anyone help me with helping yourself unlove someone

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First, unloving someone isn't as simple as casting a single spell. Love is also a psychological emotion that needs to be dealt with. Some recommend shadow work for this, and talking to a therapist may help too.

On the energetic side, most people will say to perform a cord cutting ritual. The theory behind this is that we're connected to the people we've been close to via energetic cords. Some also call these psychic links. Sometimes this is done purposefully, but often it's done unconsciously. Sometimes we're the ones responsible for creating these cords, and sometimes the other person is. If you don't want to be connected to someone energetically anymore, it's important to cut these cords no matter who created them. You may have to do this more than once, because new ones could be unconsciously created by you or the other person. Some cords could also require more than one session to cut.

Cleansing is also a must and should be part of a cord cutting ritual, but don't just cleanse yourself. Cleanse your space. If you have things this person has given you and you have no need of them, consider getting rid of them. Gifts can also be a form of link between people. Cleanse them thoroughly if you want to keep them, but be aware that they can still trigger the psychological aspect of this problem, especially if they're associated with memories and strong feelings.

Lastly, for any of the above to work, you must absolutely want to stop loving this person, and that's kind of where the psychological aspect comes in. You need to really want to move on with your life.