Please help me, please.

Listen, Everything is going to be alright. There are going to be some things you may not want to hear, but they need to be said.

Firstly, you have to accept the fact that it is not meant to be. I know this is the dreaded end result, and you just cannot, because it felt so right and it felt as though it was meant to be. But all good things come to an end, and maybe this is when the end is suppose to come. For all you know, this could be in god's plan, and you could learn something from this that god is trying to teach you.

Second, I want you to find out why it is she left you. If you identify the problem, then you can work on it to be a better human being in the future. I will stress that even if you figure out the problem, work on it and such, it will not bring your ex-girlfriend back to you. That is her decision, one you cannot make for her. Once you have worked on your problem, go to step 3.

Third, It is time to move on. As I have said before, all good things come to an end, and maybe this is the end god planned. Yes, it hurts, it is not fun nor will it ever be, but it is time to accept what is and work for a better tomorrow for yourself, and others. I am not saying that you should forget this, that is not the same, I am saying you should accept it for what it is and move on. Live in the present. Live for the future.

Now I know you may be thinking something like "Why god, why would you allow such aweful things to come about me. Why would you let me feel such pain". This is common, and I would be worried about you if you didn't think something like this. God exists to promote human beings into bettering themselves, bettering eachother, so he would not be doing this if he didn't think that you could come out of this as a better person. God doesn't throw anything at anyone that he knows they can't handle. If you are going through it, he knows that you can handle it.

I hope this helps.

To add to all of this, I encourage to let out all emotions you have on this subject. Cry if you must, do not repress it! If you need somebody to talk to, try a trusted friend, maybe a psychiatrist. I encourage you to seek help if you feel overwhelmed, you shouldn't have to deal with all of this alone if you really don't want to or think you aren't able to handle it.

Yes, i guess you are right. But is it really true that someone cast a spell on her? It happened so so fast, i don't know the reason why she did that. We love each other that is for sure but deep down in my gut, there are somethings i cant explain. There are somethings that is beyond my knowledge, something happened that is beyond my comprehension. I want to help her, i am not in denial but if its true that a spell was cast on her, that is against her free will. I know now that no body would help me here since i read on the FAQs that it is not allowed for you to cast spells for other people. Its just sad that i cannot ask for help in this kind of situation. I don't know where else to go. She needs our help.

It is true that people can cast on others, but It is very unlikely. To me, it seems that there is not real reason anyone should cast on you or your relationship. For all you know, this conflict could have been going on for a long time within her, and these issues are now surfacing. Do not blame outside forces for something that happened, because the cause could just as much be what happens inside of the relationship.

People cast for others all of the time on this site, but it is usually not done through an open forum. We encourage others who come to this site who are willing and wanting to learn magick to cast on their own. That way they learn from the experience. We can help you, but most of us will not cast for you.

Also, there are other places to go for this. Magick is not a quick fix and everything will be better, it is a tool that gradually can be used for an intention. Even if magick is used in this situation to mend your relationship, nobody can gurantee that anything will happen fast, or anything will happen at all for that matter.

I hope you refer to my first 2 posts, because that really would be the best way of going about this. Also, I encourage you to let her have her space. If she realizes that she wants to continue to be with you, nothing will change that, no spell can stop it, and she will come back.

I hope this helps

Its almost 1 1/2 months now since she left.Its just so sad that people are trying to ask money from me to cast a reverse spell or bring back a lover spell etc. As you said on the post that even if a spell was cast it is not guaranteed that it will change anything or will work for that matter. So we can say that all those paid spell casters on the net are fraud? Anyways, i hope that i can get through with this. I will try to study spells from now on.

If that is really what you want to do, then go ahead. Also, I cannot say that people who cast through an online service where they charge money are fraudulent, because I have never tried that, nor will I ever try that. But yes, I would consider it a let down if somebody charged for a spell to be done.

It is better, if you want somebody else to cast for you, to meet with this person in real life and discuss your wants, needs, and issues with them and have them recommend a spell. It may cost some money, but knowing the practitioner on a physcial human level will be better than sending money through an electrical circuit.

People who really care, in my opinion, are not overpriced. Say 20 - 30 dollars for a spell done sounds somewhat reasonable (maybe 15 depending on the spell). But I suggest you try spellcasting yourself, or if you want somebody else, refer to what I said before. Meet somebody to do it in your community, in real life, not somebody you don't even know is real or not.

Can you recommend someone? Please? I do not know where to start, my back is pushed on the wall. Maybe we can talk or chat privately, you have a good heart i can see and feel that, you talk with sense and humility and i want to have more options rather than waiting or feeling sorry for myself. If magick was really casted on her, i want to help her, if not i also wanted to know and i will move on like you said. I will, as long as its proven that she is not under a spell. I do not know someone who can cast spells for me, i don't know where to find one in my community. I can tell you the whole story if you wish.

The only person I am qualified to recommend is yourself. If you are looking for someone, you might want to try somebody who reads palms and ask if they cast spells for pay. Maybe try looking on craigslist, or looking for New-age/Occult base shops around where you live. Like I have said, I have never had to pay somebody to cast a spell for me, I have always done it myself. If you wish to Continue this through private mailing, that is fine with me.

Also, if your ex is under the influence of a spell, My steps still apply. Just because an outside force was involved does not change the process of healing. Since you are christian (or at least I am assuming you are), I urge you to pray, for yourself, for her, for everyone. And seek guidance with god. Tell him how you feel, because I know he will listen.

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