lol Healer.
Yes I agree, you dont need a spell for everything in your life, I mean you live you learn. If your g/f is doing that to you, move on and find someone else, that will treat you right. Yeah yeah its hard, blah blah blah, been there done that, but something better will come along if she doesnt want to be with you. You say you are still in school, something gives me a feeling that you will go through many many more situations that are probably worse than this. So talk to her and get the truth and if she doesnt wanna be with you then bye bye. Girls like to have a lil chase sometimes. And as soon as you dont want her she is going to want you. It always seems to happen like that lol..
For once, I disagree with Zaet. You have to do what feels right to you, Ape. Sidonus has good advice if you want to keep her, and from your post it sounds like you do, but if you really don't want her at least let her down easy. Some girl's won't tell the truth about why they are upset not because they don't trust you or don't want you to know, it's because they are afraid of how you'll react or worried that it will upset you. If she really loves you then do you really think she'd tell you about every other guy she has a crush on? Do you tell her about every girl you have/had a crush on?
I've been through this with my fiance a few times when we were first going out, over time I learned to tell when she wasn't telling the whole truth about why she was upset and now she's learned their's no point in hiding it from me once I realize something is wrong. I'm sure if you stick with her things could go the same way. It's just a matter of whether or not you really want to be with her.
Well..why not talk it out. Magick does NOT fix all the problems in the world. Nor will it ever. So talk to her. Yeah magick makes life easier but what do you gain if you did a love spell? So if talking it out doesn't work then well you will have to break up. Why have a relationship with someone when the other person is upset about it? This is just my two cents worth :P
first and foremost, there should be no trials like a girl flirting with another just for her to know if her boyfriend realy love her. true or not it would definitely touch the ego of the other. Trust is certainly needed, hence this is one of the basic foundation for love affair aside from of course you love each other. i dont believe in an abrupt decision such as dumping at the time you've heard such issues. you guys have to talk things out.
